“They’re kinder people.
And they give the best head.”
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Updated 8 years ago,May 25, 2017
I liked him because I wasnt supposed to.
tdurkee
Looking back I think it was a learning curve.
He was mature, stable and knew exactly what he wanted.
So thats what attracted me the most to him.
The thrill of indulging in something that wasnt socially acceptable.
Samaira, 20
Being with a man and not a boy has its own perks.
Talking from personal experience, honesty is at the peak of them all.
tdurkee
They have passed that stage where they fuck around just because they are horny all the time.
They are selective, they have control over their hormones and emotions which makes them very desirable.
If I get knocked up and miss a period, I know my man will handle it.
It reduces my stress.
I had unprotected sex and was worried as hell when I missed my period.
I have been attracted to older men myself.
I looked for maturity, a semi father figure perhaps.
Someone to handle my strengths with grace and encouragement, while helping me overcome my weaknesses without judgement.
We feel older men are more calm and collected, not like the testosterone-charged boys we find all around.
But older men have solutions.
They are patient, forgiving and empathetic.
Lolita, 32
Attraction, for me, goes beyond the realm of simple physicality.
So the ability to communicate, transparency and straightforwardness are the game changers.
Men dont waste time playing mind games, there are no barriers in their communication.
They know what they want, and they know how to get it.
Reena, 40
To be blunt, most older men have their shit together.
Angie, 21
I particularly, feel attracted to men who can speak well.
The kind where they can intrigue you.
In a manner of mystery.
But at the same time, a direct and clear persona.
Someone who knows what they are.
I think thats a trait that comes with being older.
You are mostly more sorted in life and you stop caring about what other people think of you.
A sort of security, and to believe that they can provide that security to you.
People comfortable in their own space, making you comfortable in turn.
Sexual prowess, I associate a mans hotness to how well they maintain themselves.
I majorly lack that ability, and seeing another person doing it creates an attraction out of awe.
Emotional maturity comes with lesser and lesser fucks to given peoples thoughts and more to what the self needs.
Kai, 19
Women tend to mature emotionally faster than men.
Men who are older will obviously connect better with you.
Im attracted to them because theyre not easy targets.
You have to earn their lust, it doesnt come cheap.
Sheena, 33
I for one am unapologetically attracted to older men.
Youd think its just about the way they look.
The rugged beard, more intense eyes, the exhausted voice but its not all that.
The point is that women in general are much more mature than men are (scientifically proven).
When I see or have a conversation with an older man, its just more easy, more meaningful.
One could argue that men your age could have slept with far more people.
But its never the same.
That excitement and fantasy of being with someone older is unmatched.
From personal experience I know I was attracted to someone much older because he didnt complicate things.
It was what it was and Id never had that before.
Moira, 25
They always use the best cologne.
Secondly, I believe age brings about a certain decisiveness in you.
The ability to be sure about a given thing.
To have a firm opinion about it.
Men are calm, affirmative, yet always gentle.
And gentleness is so underrated.
Dee, 21
I think there are lot of things that come only with experience.
Most of the guys my age are interested in things I dont have any interest in.
I have never related to these things and I never will.
Most importantly, they know how to treat a woman.
How to respect her ambitions and thoughts and ideas and feelings.
Also the sex is better, which is a very important detail.
Ash, 22
Because theres no pressure on men to look younger, as there is on women.
Zara, 25
Two words Sex appeal.
Kim, 28
They know how to put the moves on a girl.
Moves that dont include WYD and Send Nudes.
Tara, 22
Theyre kinder people.
And they give the best head.
