“I honestly didn’t think it would be a big deal.

I mean, everyone ghosts.

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Updated 7 years ago,November 29, 2017

1.Honestly?

16 People On Why They Ghosted (Instead Of Saying Goodbye)

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There wasnt really a reason.

I just wasnt feeling her anymore and I didnt know know why.

There was no fight, there was no annoying habit I had discovered, there wasnt an irreconcilable difference.

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Instead, I just disappeared.

That was just way too much way too fast.

We havent even gotten brunch and you want to spend three hours in a car together?

16 People On Why They Ghosted (Instead Of Saying Goodbye)

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Gwen, 27

4.Sometimes I think its just mutual.

Mutual ghosting is very real and not a bad thing at all.

Jessica, 30

5.Because he sucked and didnt deserve a reason.

Matthew, 23

6.I guess you could call mine accidentalghosting.

I really cared about her and wanted to do it the right way.

However, life got in the way.

Eventually, she stopped texting and I never reached out again.

To be honest, I still feel bad about it.

Tim, 28

7.Well, we were never really defined.

Analmost relationship, I guess.We went on a few dates and I didnt really think the chemistry was there.

So one day he texted me and ask how I was doing, I never replied.

And that was that.

and then when he didnt get the hint over the next week, I just stopped texting him back.

Stephanie, 23

9.I honestly didnt think it would be a big deal.

I mean, everyone ghosts.

Greg, 21

10.I think women ghost out of safety.

Its safer to just not interact with that person again sometimes rather than risk the situation escalating.

Erica, 26

11.I ghosted because breaking up sucks for both parties, no matter what side youre on.

I didnt want to watch someones heart shatter in front of me, so I never called her back.

Maybe it was cowardly, but it was easier.

Steve, 22

12.This guy and I had been talking for a long time.

We were finally going to meet up but before I left, he started trying to sext me.

We hadnt even met in person yet.

I conveniently had something come up and never talked to him again.

Anna, 25

13.After breaking up with my ex, he got super crazy and kept harassing me online.

Kelly, 24

14.I ghosted her because Im not an emotional person and breakups are emotional.

Natalie, 29

16.I actually have been ghosted myself, on threeconsecutiveoccasions.

It wasnt one of my finer moments.