A narcissist will make you feel crazy while someone with anxiety already doesnt trust themselves.
A narcissist is never to blame and someone with anxiety will always be the one to apologize.
Someone with anxiety tends to apologize for things they dont even need to.
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Someone with anxiety is a narcissists easiest prey.
A narcissist doesnt want to change while someone with anxiety constantly tries to improve.
A narcissist is never wrong.
Not only do they think they are incapable of change but they dont want to change.
They want everyone else around them to change so it benefits them.
A narcissist will pick any fight and someone with anxiety is always anticipating a fight.
You never actually know when a narcissist will lose their shit.
And someone with anxiety expects really bad fights that result in name calling and someone leaving.
A narcissist will leave which triggers abandonment issues when you have anxiety.
You suddenly start clinging to people and fear fights that lead to ends.
A narcissist uses fear to control the situation and someone with anxiety is always afraid.
Someone with anxiety is always nervous.
They have to answer.
If they dont theyll get called 12 more times.
Then theyll get threatened.
Then theyll get something taken away.
A narcissist will use threats when someone does not act accordingly.
So someone with anxiety is constantly on edge with every little thing.
A narcissist uses the tactic of manipulation and someone with anxiety folds.
A narcissist wants you to do something and they get you to do it.
Its not even about the task they are asking its more because they asked you.
You point out a narcissist flaws and they tell you-youre too sensitive.
A narcissist doesnt have flaws.
Its everyone else who does.
A narcissist will deny things that have happened while someone with anxiety will hold on tight to the pain.
But instead of actually healing and moving on, they hear something like, that never happened.
A narcissist will pick you apart while someone with anxiety already picks themselves apart and is an easy victim.
They hold you to these unrealistic and unattainable standards that no one can reach.
You blame a narcissist for something and they direct it back to you.
That time they hit you.
That time they said something horrible.
They blame you for anything that might go wrong in their life they will never hold themselves accountable.
A narcissist will resort to name calling while someone with anxiety will analyze if its true what they said.
Someone with anxiety disorder wont sit there and say I didnt deserve this.
They will say what did I do to cause them to lash out at me.
A narcissist will ruin holidays or celebrations looking for any reason to be unhappy.
While someone with anxiety thrives on trying to yo someone who will never be happy.
They want everyone to be focused on them and they will do anything to steal the spotlight.
A narcissist gets you hooked while someone with anxiety fears abandoment.
A narcissist needs to feel needed.
They need to feel like you wouldnt be able to function without them.
So they break you down and be the ones to build you back up.
They try and make you believe they are the only one who can love someone like you.
Instead of hearing your side, if youve made them look bad or tarnished their reputation beware.
Narcissists look at every relationship as a reflection of them.
While someone with anxiety doubts themselves more.
Its a snide comment that will ruin your day.
Something said about the way you look.
They respond to whatever you might say with, well its true isnt it?
Someone with anxiety then starts to believe it.
When a narcissist has insecurities they mask it by making others feel worse than they do.
A narcissist will continue to test you and push boundaries while someone with anxiety allows it.
They try so hard to just heal the best they can.
A narcissist uses emotional abuse to silence you while someone with anxiety then silences themselves.
When there is physical abuse, there are marks and bruises and you know its not right.
When its emotional abuse its all about the interruption.
reverting to denial of fact vs. fiction.
A narcissist wins when their victim becomes silent about the abuse.
Everything is about control and this is where a narcissist and someone with anxiety has the greatest conflict.
The greatest issue a narcissist has against someone with anxiety is the battle for control.
Someone with anxiety wants to control everything because anxiety is something they cant control.
But someone with anxiety doesnt want to be controlled.
The relationship between a narcissist and a victim with anxiety may be looked at as cause and effect.
