You go to the bar.
There are attractive women everywhere.
They barely even register on your radar.
Alvin Mahmudov
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Updated 8 years ago,June 1, 2017
What does that even mean?
Its impossible to explain.
But youll notice when it feels right.
When the shit hits the fan, she helps you pick up the pieces.
When youre dealing with a hard situation, shes got your back.
Thats when I knew I really loved her.
Alvin Mahmudov
Its not all about YOU and what you want to do.
You make an effort to plan dates around her interests.
Your needs count (but so do hers).
Arguments happen, but you dont hold a grudge.
You let that shit go.
Theres no drama or mind games.
(Its more fun to save the dirty stuff for the bedroom.)
Its not just her body.
Her brain is hot, too.
In fact, its on fire.
You could listen to her speak for hours.
Her words arouse your curiosity and intellect.
She tells the best stories.
Theyre so vivid and insightful.
You know how some people cover up their smartphone whenever you even look in its direction?
Yeah, thats not shady at all.
No more of that funny business!
She invites you inside her phone world without being awkward about it.
She makes you so happy that youre constantly sporting a shit-eating grin.
You cant recall anybody else making you feel so enthusiastic.
All of your ex-girlfriends seem like terrible decisions in comparison.
What the fuck were you thinking?
Its good to have healthy boundaries and hobbies that dont involve your life partner (or soul mate).
Still, you cant help missing her when youre not together.
She makes everything seem better somehow.
This is the part where you send a text that says: I wish you were here.
You go to the bar.
There are attractive women everywhere.
They barely even register on your radar.
Youre too busy looking forward to the next time youll see her.
I wonder what shes doing now?
Hint: Shes probably wondering the same thing about you (or watching television who knows?).
When youre with her, you dont over-analyze the future or relive the past.
Instead, you enjoy the present moment together.
Why would you want to do anything else when youre in the company of someone so incredible?
You lose all sense of time.
Minutes turn into hours before you realize it.
When youre with the right woman, you wont waste a minute of your time with such trivial nonsense.
She wants to bond with you.
Get to know her.
They havent heard from you in weeks, so they have a reason to be concerned.
Tell them youre alive!
Just not right now.
Never waste a good honey-moon phase!
Thats my mantra…
Whos perfect?
Life is a roller-coaster.
It includes ups and downs.
She gets that idea.
You accept each other (on good and bad days).
Theres no leftover bitterness.
You resolve conflict before it has time to fester and grow into something bigger.
You might not cuddle in your sleep (because lets be real it gets hot and uncomfortable quick!
), but its still nice to see your lover first thing in the morning.
Cant imagine a greater way to start your day?
She sounds like a keeper.
Is it already time for the living together chat?
That sneaked up on you.
You dont have to be doing anything fancy.
You enjoy every day and night spent with her, regardless of the specifics.
It could be as extravagant as taking a cruise or intercontinental trip.
Youve never loved somebody so much.
And amazingly, she loves you back.
How did you get so lucky?
