He wanted you around for the future.
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Updated 8 years ago,August 23, 2017
1.
You jumped really quickly into it.
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Be wary of the relationships that happen too quickly or seem perfect.
They never are right off the bat.
And I promise you it will freak him out how good it is at first.
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You expected too much too fast.
Its good to have expectations.
Its bad to have unrealistic ones.
Dont expect more than what hes able to give.
And dont have these absurd expectations too quickly.
You let him get away with disrespecting you.
Guys are like children.
And I dont mean that insulting men in any way.
What I mean is guys are going to push you just to see what they can get away with.
A guy treating you poorly is a test.
You believed what you wanted not what was actually true.
Youre making him into someone he isnt.
You slept with him too fast.
Why buy a cow when you get the milk for free.
When you sleep with someone too quickly its too easy.
Theres gotta be a little bit of a chase and mystery.
Even if its something you dont do often if you tell him that hes not going to believe you.
Build up to a physical relationship, dont one of your best cards immediately.
You got inside your own head and apologized too often.
Self-doubt will ruin every relationship you have.
Stop apologizing and overthinking everything you say and do.
Just go for it.
You keep choosing the wrong people.
You know when youre choosing the wrong guy because when he ghosts you, you arent surprised.
He didnt have to earn your time and attention.
Clingy girls are insecure girls.
He just didnt care enough.
There was some tiny turn off he couldnt live with.
We all have little things.
Someone else he liked more came into the picture.
That friend that always turned to him finally broke up with her shitty ex.
You drank too much the second or third date.
You said something that shot up a red flag.
Sometimes we fuck up relationships ourselves and it isnt always the guys fault.
When that happens though there is no fixing it.
You just gotta move on.
He was dealing with personal shit he didnt tell you about.
If a guy likes you enough hes going to tell you whats up right at the beginning.
He doesnt want you to be confused or doubt him.
You were the rebound.
Sometimes guys just need to have sex after they got hurt.
Is it wrong…maybe.
But thats how a lot of guys deal with breakups and you cant take it personally.
He wanted to keep you around in the future.
He wasnt over his ex.
He just didnt like you and didnt know how to say it.
Wish them well and move on.
Someone ghosting you has more to do with them than it does you.
I can guarantee you if you handle being ghosted well, they will come back around apologizing.
Then it will be up to you if you decide if you want them in your life.
