Sometimes, you will have to break someone’s heart.
Don’t beat yourself up over that.
Don’t blame yourself.
Benjaminrobyn Jespersen
It’s not your fault for feeling a different way.
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Updated 7 years ago,December 16, 2017
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Your worth should never be defined by your relationship status.
For godss sake, it isnt a death sentence to be single.
Instead of hating it, embrace the single life.
Go out and have your fun.
Benjaminrobyn Jespersen
It isnt a crime to love being alone and having your cake and it eating it too.
It isnt cute to talk about your ex constantly.
Delete him from Facebook and Instagram and learn how to live without him or her.
They are an ex for a reason remember that.
Its okay to have feelings for someone who you havent seen in years.
Validate your feelings and dont push them away.
Learn how to cope with having these feelings in your heart, and dont ever feel ashamed of them.
Sometimes, that love will never fade and that isnt something to be sad about.
It just shows how strong that love was.
Success should never be based on who you are spending time with.
Its okay to feel lonely.
But dont keep it to yourself.
Reach out to your best friends.
Reach out to your family.
you dont have to stay in this state of despair.
There will always be another person out there for you.
No matter how much you think that ex or that person was the one.
There isnt just one soulmate for you.
Have faith that you will meet more than just one.
Your first love is extremely powerful and will have a lasting impact on you forever.
In the contrary, your second or third or fourth love can be more healthy and just as passionate.
Dont think that your first love is the end all be all.
You will meet people in your life that you will fall in love with who wont reciprocate those feelings.
That doesnt mean that they dont care.
And it doesnt make them terrible people.
It makes them imperfectly human.
Dont ever invalidate someones feelings even if it breaks your heart.
There is so much more to life than finding a boyfriend.
There is so many more kinds of love than the kind you get from a significant other.
Sometimes, you will have to break someones heart.
Dont beat yourself up over that.
Its not your fault for feeling a different way.
Despite the hurt and the heartache.
Always believe that love is worth it.
Even amonsgt the pain and suffering you have endured.
Dont mistaken lust for love.
Dont ever date or get with someone just because you feel lonely one night or need attention.
Its unfair to them and unfair to your heart.
Your heart will heal no matter how much you think it wont.
You are stronger than you think you are.
You are more resilient than you know.
Have faith in yourself and in the process of healing.
You will never find a greater love than the love you have for yourself and for your life.
Learn how to cherish your own heart, whether you are in love with someone or not.
At the end of the day, all you have is your own soul and body.
Be kind to yourself.
