Asking for help and asking for people to just carry you are two very different things.
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Updated 7 years ago,October 18, 2018
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Sometimes all you’re able to do is accept they wont see your side, and move on.
Fabien Vilrus
Sometimes, its your fault.Youve misstepped, youve misspoken, youve crossed a line.
You cant change this.
And you shouldnt spend your energy trying to.
They are flawed and messy and at times unfortunate.
Theyre going to fuck up and theyre going to hurt you.
And how you handle that says more about you than the pain they have had a hand in inflicting.
Goodbyes are hard, but clinging to them after theyve happened is making the situation intentionally harder.
Or just convince yourself?
Something to think about whenever you roll up your sleeves getting ready to be argumentative.
And the thing, we all know when were being difficult.
And being unbendable is, frankly, childish.
Youre going to fuck up at it!
You will not be helpable if youre not actionable in working at succeeding in whatever you need help with.
Believing that people owe you anything is misguided and a recipe for disappointment.No one owes you shit.
Not a single thing.
If youre feeling sensitive and stung because youve heard someone mentioned you, check yourself.
Theres not a chance in hell youre innocent of never stepping foot on the gossip train.
Not a chance in hell.
People are going to do what they want to do regardless of how you feel about it.
Its always better to be responsive than reactive.Anger and retaliation are easy.
Its easy to be angry.
Its easy to bite back.
Being methodical with your response instead of jumping to the first conclusion youve come to is harder.
It takes self-control and the ability to hit pause and really think.
you might work your ass off and still be overlooked.
Missing out on something or feeling like youve failed is part of the experience of being a person.
It happens to literally everyone.
Constant irresponsibility is not a good look.In fact, its worrisome and a dangerous path to go down.
Besides the actual like, concerning element, being an adult toddler is just so…honestly?
Do you want people to be calling you pathetic?
So get your shit together.
You and everyone around you will be grateful.
