Be the bigger person and take a stab at imagine what wounds made them act the way they did.
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Updated 6 years ago,January 15, 2019
1.Stop actively trying to forgive them.
Thats what youre here to resolve.
Natalie Allen
4.Be the bigger person and attempt to imagine what wounds made them act the way they did.
7.Realize that people dont always come into our lives to love us.
8.Be honest about whether or not you contributed to whatever happened between you.
11.Stop trying to create a more just world by hanging onto your injustices.
That part is up to you.
15.Be still and let every wave of emotion pass over you.
Let it cleanse you and then let it tell you what it’s crucial that you do next.
16.Get better at speaking up for yourself.
Tell someone when they are being rude.
Tell someone when youre upset.
17.Get better at disconnecting.
You dont have to be friends with everyone, certainly not anyone whos hurt you in any significant way.
18.Take all of the anger that is still coursing through you and channel it toward building a new life.
Living well is not the best revenge, its the only revenge thats worth anything.
