Start devising a plan.
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Updated 4 years ago,June 16, 2021
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Gain financial clarity.Make a spreadsheet of your debts, and expenses.
Gian Cescon
List them from least to greatest, and start paying them off in a snowball.
Open a new savings account, contribute to it regularly.
The goal should be 3-6 months of living expenses covered.
Purge your wardrobe.Any clothes that suit the person you used to be are not going to work any longer.
Dont get discouraged if you cant accomplish this in just one shopping trip.
Memorize the steps, and the ingredients needed.
Research the place you want to live, where you could go, what you could do for work.
Start devising a plan.
Clear out your social media accounts.This applies to both who you follow and what youve posted.
If your feed does not make you feel inspired and positive, you are following the wrong people.
If you wouldnt want your future children seeing what youve posted, it shouldnt be up there.
Whatever it is, embrace it.
Learn to spend time on your own.
Of course, being a good communicator means expressing these things without being crass, rude, or offensive.
Let go of trying to be someone elses best self.Your best friend who bought those awesome jeans you love?
You dont also need those exact jeans.
You need clothes that make you look and feel amazing.
Your acquaintance who started a creative business you admire?
Develop a basic skincare routine.Absolutely everyone needs to cleanse, exfoliate, and apply SPF.
There are no exceptions to this.
Then read it again.
It is more worthwhile to read one book thoroughly than 24 of them halfheartedly.
This will help you begin to work with yourself, in a way thats really approachable and easy.
In this, you’ve got the option to commit to respecting yourself completely.
You do not have to like yourself to treat yourself well.
Get a journal and start blueprinting the life you want.Draw it out, write it out.
The relationships, money, work you want.
So what if its a pipe dream?
Make more time for the people that matter.The quality of your relationships is the quality of your life.
