Every day you grow more and more into the person that you are destined to be.
You dont have to have your life all figured out.
This is a time of growth.
Allegra Messina
A time of learning what works and what doesnt.
not for a second should you think that you oughta have every part of your life figured out.
Its okay to be alone.
The relationship you were in didnt work for a reason.
There is a reason that person didnt make it into your future.
Take it as a time to grow.
A time to learn to love yourself.
You dont need to have your dream job.
You have a long way to go in your career.
This takes trial and error and learning what your passions are.
Its okay to put your own happiness first.
Its okay to cancel plans and turn things down.
Its okay to be selfish and spend the night by yourself.
This is the time where you get to focus on nobody other than you.
You truly get to put your happiness before anything else.
Not every friendship is going to last forever.
We arent in high school anymore.
Not every friendship is meant to last, but you will find the real ones that will.
You dont have to stay in a relationship that makes you unhappy.
You dont have to find your forever just yet.
You dont need to settle.
You are allowed to leave anything that is no longer bringing you what you need.
This too shall pass.
Ask yourself, is what youre stressing over now really going to matter 5 years from now?
If not, let it go.
You are in your 20s.
Now is the time.
Take it all in.
Live your life to the absolute fullest.
You wont feel this heartbroken forever.
You will find love again.
You will be happy.
Just because someone else is doing something right now, doesnt mean you should probably be.
The biggest mistake we make is putting a timeframe on when things in our life should happen.
People change, people suck and people leave.
One of the hardest realizations.
People will hurt you.
No matter how good that you are to them.
This part is unfortunately, inevitable.
Every painful time will be followed by some period of happiness.
The pain will never last forever.
You will be able to find joy and happiness in life again.
You will feel love again.
Your past relationship wasnt the last time that you will ever be in love.
It isnt the last time that someone will ever make you feel like that again.
You are young, your life is just getting started.
You are never alone as you may feel.
Think of how many people in your life love and support you.
Remember those who are always there for you.
Reach out to them.
Admit you need help.
15. you’re free to set limits and say no.
You are not at the power of everyone around you.
Its okay to not want to do things.
It is okay to put your foot down and not let people walk all over you.
More beautiful than you may ever be able to see yourself.
Just the way you are.
You arent the only one thats terrified.
Life is scary and filled with so many unknowns and up and downs.
These fears make us human.
You are doing just fine.
But what you are doing is perfect.
It is your life and it is the way that it should be, for you.
Every day is a step closer to the person that you are supposed to be.
Things will get easier.
Things wont always feel as hard as they do right now.
With every day, you will figure it out more.
You will get the hang of this whole growing up thing.
They will get better.
