Understanding he’s not worth my time and if something will happen it simply will.

I’m not gonna waste my time and let my happiness be dependent on a boy.

2.You shoot your shot knowing it wont hit target.

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Do it anyway to get it over with.

Then you might move on forever.

3.I remind myself that they arent perfect.

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It might seem rude, but Ill point out aaaaaall the things that annoyed/bothered me about them.

I remember things they did that were toxic or mean, and that shines a different light on them.

5.Accept that things didnt work out (which is one of the harder things to do).

Then find better things to do.

Hang out with friends, go to parties, listen to songs you like.

See how life is still enjoyable without them.

Do something that will make yourself proud of you.

Build up your self confidence, your skill-set, your current friendships.

Generally it takes me a year to get over a crush, give or take.

I dont waste my time mulling over someone whos not interested.

8.Sometimes, it just takes time.

Sometimes, you just have to get to know them.

The less I see them, the less I think about them.

Out of sight out of mind.

10.Focus your feelings to something youre passionate about and can work at.

Art, music, anything creative or anything you love.

Maybe even learn to put your love into that instead.

12.Understanding hes not worth my time and if something will happen it simply will.

Im not gonna waste my time and let my happiness be dependent on a boy.

13.Talk to them authentically.

14.Wait for them to say something painfully stupid.

15.Sometimes the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.

16.Getting over it doesnt necessarily mean never thinking about them.

Take a pen and a paper and write down all the negative things about your crush.

Read them whenever you miss them.

18.I learned more about him as a person and realized that we would never work as a couple.

Basically, it gives you tools to change your obsessive thinking pattern about that particular individual.

Behavioral modification does work.

20.By finding a new one.