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Updated 8 years ago,October 20, 2017
1.
I tried to fight him off.
When I was 22 I lived with a friend of mine.
Mihai Surdu
We had tried dating prior and it didnt work out so whatever, roommates it was.
He apparently took it as him being entitled to it whenever he wanted to.
It screwed me up for a long time, honestly.
Mihai Surdu
I had issues with my self-esteem and took way too many risks with sexual partners after that.
Im married now to a wonderful man who gets it, so thankfully everything turned out okay for me.
Harleen_Quinzel
2.
When I was 16 I was living at home still with my incredibly abusive parents.
I was suicidal and had just switched medications.
He got to my house, I let him in and we talked and watched a movie.
Then we went to Mimis Cafe for dinner to get our food to go.
When we got back to my house he got me a soda.
This is where he slipped the drug into my drink.
I suddenly was extremely tired, I couldnt walk or move.
He picked me up and put me in bed.
I dont remember anything else.
My nipples were also bleeding because he had bitten them.
I was shocked and confused.
My brain kind of made up a situation where this was all okay and I had wanted it.
I gave him a kiss, made him breakfast and finally got him out of my house.
My parents got home later that evening.
My parents asked me about it and I said it was my friends brother.
They called my friend whose parents said no one had been over.
My parents lost it and I told them the truth.
RiskyDriver
3.
He ended up molesting my sister and I for the next two years.
When I was 10 my mom started dating this guy.
Shortly after, he moved in with us.
He was pretty cool at first but then he started getting really inappropriate.
Things escalated and he ended up molesting my sister and I for the next two years.
Our mom knew about it too and didnt do anything.
I still feel guilty for never speaking up and telling someone.
I could have put a stop to it but I didnt.
Syntagram
4.
At one point my head banged into his nightstand and I got really fuzzy.
I ended up giving him a ride home around 9:30.
Once we walked into his room, he shut the door quickly so we wouldnt wake up his roommate.
He started trying to kiss me and I immediately said no way man.
He kept gently pulling me towards the bed saying things to attempt to convince me to stay.
At one point my head banged into his nightstand and I got really fuzzy.
The fucking scumbag also texted me after I left saying Was this your first time almost being raped?
I responded, No you asshole, it wasnt, and you DID rape me.
He approached me in the lab on Monday and cornered me saying he hoped we could still be friends.
I ended up failing all three classes we had together and not getting my degree.
The really fucked up thing about this was, I had no reason to ever suspect him.
We had spent so much time together, and I had been in his house countless times.
I dont know what made this one night different.
hellothrowaway666
5.
He tried his best to ram what felt like a couple of fingers into me through my jeans.
Netla
6.
I had a boyfriend back in 2012, 2013.
So, I didnt really have anybody here.
He had to have sex, every single night.
Then after a while, hed start forcing me.
Occasionally he would anally rape me as well.
Id wake up to blood and pain.
I didnt know what love was.
If I loved him, I would do this and this and this.
He started restricting who I could talk to.
I dont think I want to write out the rest of the story.
I hate that they call it intimate rape.
Theres nothing intimate about it.
People told me to get back together with him, too.
That he loved me and we could work it out.
BurburryCustardbath
7.
Tearing my clothes, pushing me down, calling me a whore, saying that Ill love it.
I was raped a couple of years ago.
And then when he was done, the friend decided it was his turn.
3 men decided to ruin my life that night.
I hope they are dead in a ditch somewhere.
falthecosmonaut
8.
I woke up to him thrusting into me and started to cry.
1st timeCollege party, Im not sure what happened, but I kept not getting in my rides cars.
I fell asleep, remember feeling being kissed, passed it off as dreaming and just kept sleeping.
Idk if he finished, or what happened.
I remember crying, and waking up.
My brain has erased most of that night.
And he hits me.
I run off, he consoles me, we go back to my apartment.
In bed, sleeping, and he begins to force himself on me.
Telling me I liked it, and whores liked me deserved this.
And I remember fully consenting the next morning to a different round.
Thinking, how could I be raped if this was someone I love?
It took a few years, both times to realize what had happened to me.
I am at peace.
Idk what happened to the first guy, but my ex.
I hope he gets the worst things life can hand him.
Im lucky I dont remember a lot.
I dont want to remember.
Im scared it will happen again.
But I know its ok, that Im ok, that I will move on and live.
sarahflo092
9.
I just thought it was something all brothers & sisters would do.
It ended when I was 12.
Its been 10 years.
Im doing all right now, I have good days and I have bad days.
When I was 17 I made a police report and hes being charged with multiple offences.
Lil_sasspants
10.
I just remember crying & being so scared.
I have two stories to share.
A man pulled up in a truck & asked us where we went to school.
He said he had a nephew moving into town & was checking out local schools.
He asked us where it was.
We kind of pointed it out.
He asked if we could show him.
And, stupid kids that we were, we got in his truck.
He drove to a parking lot & forced my younger sister to give him oral sex.
Of course, we didnt know it at the time.
Knew nothing about sex.
I just remember crying & being so scared.
He drove us back to town & dropped us off.
I dont remember telling anyone about it.
I dont remember not telling anyone either.
I dont remember what happened.
I think I just repressed it all.
I tried talking to my sister about it once.
She didnt want to talk about it at all.
The second story is from just a few years ago.
I took on a second job to make ends meet, part-time cleaning offices.
One of my jobs was at the police station in the next town over.
There were two other bathrooms in the small police station, so I wasnt really inconveniencing anyone.
And, it never took me more than 10 minutes to do what I needed to do.
The police chief apologized to me in person.
I quit that job shortly thereafter.
I hope that they arent harassing the next poor person stuck cleaning there.
storyfromthepast
11.
_northernlights
12.
It went on for months.
I never said anything because I was so ashamed.
I didnt want that to happen and I didnt want to quit my job because I needed the money.
Eventually one of my coworkers and friends realized what was going on to some extent.
He went to the manager and threatened to beat him up and stuff if he continued.
He of course treated me awfully but at least he wasnt molesting me anymore.
A year or so later he quit and I have thankfully never seen him again.
Today Im doing okay.
I downplayed what happened for years and no one knows the extent of what happened except for my boyfriend.
But obviously it was a big deal.
crazynekosama
13.
He pulled the curtain aside and ejaculated on me.
When I was 7 I was staying the night at my best friends house.
I wouldnt and hid in the shower.
He pulled the curtain aside and ejaculated on me.
I never told anyone, mostly blocked it out of my memory.
He taped the whole thing.
When I was 17, I got drunk for the first time at the same best friends house.
It was all of our first times getting drunk.
I remember this vividly and cannot forget his face in the mirror.
He applied to be a police officer.
My best friend was later angry that I consented to a rape kit.
I spent a week in a psych ward after that one.
Shes not my best friend anymore.
When I was 19 or so, my cousins other grandfather caressed my ass.
When I was 26 my (then) husband raped me.
I was with him for 3 more years before I divorced him.
I have never confessed this to my current fiance, and I dont know that I can.
And you know whats really fucked up?
Thats not REALLY rape, it could have been so much worse.
These days, Im mostly fine.
Im out a horrible co-dependent marriage with an alcoholic.
I worked with a really amazing therapist, and my relationship with my fiance is fantastic.
We work together really well.
I love and trust him so much.
But, theres this little part of me that wonders, can I REALLY trust him?
flow-er
14.
When I was 17, I got my first job at an amusement park.
Everyone I worked with was around the same age, so we all hung out outside of work.
I was so embarrassed but I laughed it off because everyone else was laughing.
Apparently he had a list of females he did this to and took joy in it.
He later started harassing me in my 3rd summer and would tell me You know youre ugly, right?
every time he saw me.
He was also my supervisor.
I told our manager and she talked to him, without mentioning names.
He later cornered me after work (in the dark) when I tried to leave our stand.
NesnieLope
15.
I was so pretty, then so beautiful, then so sexy…
Mom worked 3 jobs for a long time, and frequently left us with family.
This wasnt a big deal until I started developing very young.
I know that now…and expertly conditioned me to hide our interactions.
But the damage was done, and they never reported.
Makes me get panicky.
I hate to admit it but I avoid being out in public with her sometimes because of it.
wifey1point1
16.
I remember feeling very uncomfortable about where he was touching me.
He proceeded to get me down the floor and climb on top of me in the missionary position.
I didnt know what else to do beside watch, I wish I had done something.
I wish I could have protected her better, but Ive never been good at reacting during bad situations.
Im doing all right now, my husband likes to surprise me and grab me or snuggle me.
Sometimes I just dont want to be touched at all, even though I desperately love my husband.
He is very understanding though.
hjohodor
17.
Woke up to ex (yes, he was an ex at the time) inside me.
Woke up to ex (yes, he was an ex at the time) inside me.
I guess he still thought he was entitled to me.
Multiple guys switching to anal either without asking or after Ive said no repeatedly.
A random man grabbed my butt in a store when I was maybe 16.
A man dressed as Jesus grabbed and kissed me at a Halloween party.
The same catcalling pretty much everyone else has experienced.
tywin_with_tits
18.
I found him naked on top of me.
On the way there I questioned about her relationship with her brother and she told me she hated him.
We arrived at the potluck and I meet my uncle in person for the first time in years.
We hug and catch up on whats going on in our lives.
My aunt couldnt make it to the potluck.
My uncle followed me to the bathroom at one point.
Sorry kiddo, I didnt know you were in here!
His tone was genuine enough that I believed his excuse.
Come to my bedroom, I want to show you something.
A few had him with his beer buddy.
He said sure, Ill let your mother know where you are before shutting the door.
Went to sleep, and 2 hours later…
I found him naked on top of me.
I tried to scream, but it was faint.
WHAT THE FUCK I yelled before he put his hand over my mouth.
I want to pass that on to you.
I punched him numerous times in the face which sent him reeling far back enough for me to escape.
I raced down the stairs while pulling my shorts back up and told my mother everything.
She told me to go wait in the car while she had a talk with him.
He was arrested and thrown in jail.
I forget for how many years but I think its a lot.
Unfortunately he died in jail, and good on him.
I never wanted that man in my life again.
That incident though is why Im veering off from dating until Im older.
And that is the very true story of how, like my mother, I was raped.
ByeByeFlutterPie
19.
If I couldnt perform long enough shed keep me up all night threatening her own life.
When I was 15 I started dating a friend of mine.
One time she cracked a rib and another time she cut my finger to the bone.
There are still some lasting marks from it all, but overall Im improving.
mycatwinky
20.
Im screaming for helpeveryone just walked past.
I moved away, but whenever I go back to visit I have anxiety attacks on public transit now.
I used to love it.
But right now Im just not ready.
I feel ashamed and terrifiedthe only reason he didnt hurt me badly is because he decided not to.
I only talk about it on Reddit.
calowyn
