I can guarantee you that you’re not exactly where you thought you’d be.

Or where you thought you should be by now.

Or where you thought youshould beby now.

21 Reminders If This Isn’t Where You Thought You’d Be At In Life

Roberto Nickson

It can feel discouraging, I know.

But stop right now and face the truth right now, you are right here.You are right here.

4.Theres nothing wrong with you if you arent where you think youre supposed to be.

And be honest with yourself: is this supposed to be largely influenced by society and other people?

If it is its only holding you back and preventing you from seeing your own untapped potential.

They were only plans, and nothing more.

6.It is counterproductive to make excuses as to why you arent where you thought youd be.

7.The unexpected is all part of life.

Nothing worthwhile ever gets done when you wear your victimhood and self-pity like badges of honor.

9.Youre doing really well in at least one thing right now.

Your life is not the apocalyptic catastrophe that youre making it out to be.

10.The weaknesses you still have right now arent sentencing you to a dead end.

This doesnt mean youre a failure or that you have to throw in the towel.

You owe it to yourself to create, not to destroy, who you are.

Instead, learn to look at yourself objectively and know that you are a work-in-progress with room for improvement.

18.Disappointments and tough luck are to be expected.

19.If you feel uncertain right now, take that as a good sign.

But nothing is guaranteed.

Youre becoming more of who youre meant to be and youre at the beginning of something new and unknown.

You cant know where you want to go without some honest self-evaluation and deep reflection.

Even if you dont think you deserve it, you do.

How else are you going to heal or strengthen yourself?

21.Others are where they are and that is fine.

You are where you are and that is also fine.