One comment I hear over and over again is, I wish I knew this sooner!
Stop looking for love; make yourself a vessel to receive it.
This applies if youre single as well as if youre in a relationship.
Relationships amplify whats already inside you.
Dont think a relationship will magically cure you and heal your pain and trauma.
Heartbreak is a blessing or a curse; its up to you.
A devastatingbreakupcan either destroy you or make you stronger, you get to choose.
You cant win them all.
One day I was lamenting to a friend about this guy who just wouldnt commit to me.
I couldnt understand why or what the issue was.
Whether its in dating or life in general, these are words to live by.
You wont recognize the right partner for you until you are in the right place internally.
Despite what youve heard, you wont just know when you find the one.
You teach the world how to treat you.
No one will raise your value for you, its on you.
If you think all men are jerks.,..
maybe you just have bad taste in men.
If every guyghosts youor has commitment issues, then its time to look at who youre choosing and why.
Stop texting him… you dont need to remind him you exist.
I promise, if aguy really likes youhe wont just forget about you.
Happiness doesnt just happen.
We create our own happiness.
), or any external trappings.
Happiness doesnt just show up at your door as a consolation prize for years of suffering.
You have to plant the seeds of happiness and tend to them daily.
Fairytale love doesnt exist.
Relationships do not determine your worth.
None of them are the arbiters of your worth, only you are.
Love isnt what you get; its what you give.
So many of us fall into the trap of focusing on what were not getting in our relationship.
He doesnt call me enough, he isnt affectionate enough, he doesnt take me out enough.
Instead of dwelling on what you arent getting, shift your focus to what you could be giving.
Sometimes youre the problem.
Ask yourself: am I in love or am I triggered?
These things can feel the same and cause the same sensations in your body.
You dont need a closure talk that wraps everything up in a pretty bow.
Stop waiting to get closure from your ex before you move on.
you could give yourself the closure.
Closure means its over, its done, and its closed.
Challenge the narrative and consider you might be wrong, consider alternate explanations.
The beginning of a relationship is not real.
There is no point in stewing in regret.
You will never have to convince your soulmate that he is your soulmate.
You dont need to plot or strategize or do social media deep dives.
If this is the right person for you, they will know it too!
Not everyone is a match.
Sometimes it wasnt you and it wasnt him, it just wasnt a match and thats fine!
You will be OK.
Above all, make this your mantra: I will be OK. What is there to fear when you know everything will be OK in the end?
