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Updated 8 years ago,June 21, 2017
1.
It may have started off wrong, but Ive never met someone so perfect for me.
I had just moved back to Florida from Boston.
I was hanging out with some friends at a bar they were regulars at.
It was a usual weekend thing apparently.
I thought the bartender was so cute but he had a girlfriend.
We got to know each other and the sexual chemistry was just so damn strong.
His girlfriend was busy with her son doing normal celebrations and wasnt interested in his feelings at the time.
We met up and went out drinking all night.
Thats when it started.
We started having sex and Id stay over, wed send each other dirty texts.
She found out and hated me, obviously.
He broke up with her and we started talking more seriously.
After a month I told him we were going to be exclusive or I was done.
It may have started off wrong but Ive never met someone so perfect for me.
Turns out he was right.
THEPooPQUEEN
2.
It was the first time that I enjoyed sex with another person, ever.
He was a huge stoner, but a nice guy.
I was young enough to not understand that not all guys are that way.
It was the first time that I enjoyed sex with another person, ever.
Ive never told him that I cheated on him.
madisondaoutlaw
3.
He ended up being everything I felt I was missing in my relationship.
I left behind scholarships and transferred colleges at his request.
When we got to Kansas, nothing improved.
The mismatch of our libidos made everything worse.
So I started looking on Tinder.
I met a guy for what I thought was a fuck date.
He ended up being everything I felt I was missing in my relationship.
I broke up with him, but never told him I cheated.
Were both so much better off now.
He married one of his exes and is really happy.
Theyre perfect for eachother.
CalamityThrives
4.
Ive been with the other girl ever since and it was the best decision I ever made.
Dated for 2 years in college.
She graduated early and left.
Wed always had issues and fought a lot.
She was head over heels for me but Ill be honest I didnt feel the same for her.
Plus we fought a lot, as I mentioned.
Girl had a temper.
Anyway, its my birthday and shes away and of course we had fought all that week.
She grudgingly wished me a happy bday.
I went out with friends and hooked up with a friend my other friend invites.
She slept over but we didnt have sex.
Next day I told her what happened.
Ive been with the other girl ever since and it was the best decision I ever made.
8nate
5.
The ex-spouse was a nightmare.
The current SO showed me how I shouldve been treated.
I dont regret cheating at all.
I knew the marriage was over before I met the current significant other.
The ex-spouse was a nightmare.
The current SO showed me how I shouldve been treated.
Life is much better and Im safe.
justaflingsis
6.
I had been dating a guy on & off for 2 years back in high school.
I had met him once when I joined her for a concert.
I flirted with him the whole time I was there.
I felt guilty, but I couldnt stop.
Ultimately, nothing happened.
as bad as it sounds, during that week, my ex was just a bother.
I didnt want to talk to him because at this point, I was really falling for this guy.
I couldnt help myself, we ended up kissing & admitting to each other that we liked each other.
after I returned from orientation, I couldnt put him out of my mind.
we would text & FaceTime every day.
I truly think this is who I was meant to be with.
vanessaaaceee
7.
It wasnt an amazing kiss.
It was a bit rushed.
But it changed my life.
I had been seeing my boyfriend for about 6 months.
I was 20 at the time and my first serious relationship.
But then he started putting the subtle emotional abuses on me.
I then started talking more and more with a guy at work.
He was the head chef and I was the bartender.
We just seemed to have a connection.
We were total opposites didnt have much in common.
Head chef asked me to hang out with him.
I thought yeah why not.
I wasnt expecting anything to happen.
We had dinner played pool had some drinks.
Then he kissed me.
It wasnt an amazing kiss.
It was a bit rushed.
But it changed my life.
I ended up going back to his place and we talked and hung out and we fell asleep together.
Now I was in a pickle.
I was intoxicated by this head chef.
He made me think and feel things that I didnt know I could.
But I had a boyfriend.
I took the next day to think about things on my own.
Then I ended up breaking up with my boyfriend.
It was hard and sad but the right thing to do.
I told the head chef I did that.
And we could start hanging out and see what happens.
So we did start hanging.
We had a rocky start.
Many ups and downs with a break thrown in.
But 9 years later and were married with a 2 year old and another one on the way.
Im so glad he came into my life.
We were both what we needed.
We both made each other grow up but in different ways.
He is and always will be the love of my life.
BrosephStalin86
8.
I met someone that was basically my female twin and we hit it off instantly.
I just met someone so much better for me.
I met someone that was basically my female twin and we hit it off instantly.
I ended up breaking up with the girl I was with and dating her for 6 months.
Turns out theres such a thing as too much alike.
RedPantyKnight
9.
I was in a dud of a marriage.
I married too young and against my better judgment.
I found out that my husband was on dating sites and talking to women online attempting to solicit dates.
We started out with harmless conversations and became work friends.
We then found excuses to text each other when not at work.
I couldnt wait to go to work every day and see him.
I thought about him all the time.
I knew I was heading toward dangerous ground but I didnt want to stop.
It was the most amazing thing Id ever felt in my life.
Then that eventually turned into groping, hand jobs, oral sex…you get the idea.
I could not get enough of this guy.
I came clean with my husband before my affair progressed any deeper.
I broke off the affair and agreed to try marriage counseling.
After I told my husband I wanted a divorce, he attempted to destroy my life.
My boyfriend is now my husband and we have been together for 10 years and going strong.
I love him more than anything and I respect him more than anyone Ive ever met.
I would never dream of cheating on him and I feel confident that hed never cheat on me.
The_Two_Trees
10.
She made me a believer in the idea of love at first sight.
Day 1 I go to the office to turn in my walk-through paperwork.
She moved in across from my apartment a couple weeks later and we started to hang out.
One night we slept together.
The next day I broke up with my girlfriend.
Me and new girl talked and we both wanted to be together.
She moved in with me a month later.
That was 17 years ago.
Shes currently asleep upstairs next to our daughter.
optimaloutcome
11.
Weve been married for ten years now and are still very happy.
I had an affair with a coworker that was significantly older than me.
It took about a year before anybody caught on.
Coworkers started noticing, he eventually ended up in a round of layoffs.
I got caught first and my boyfriend moved out.
Not long after that, he filed for divorce from his wife and moved in with me.
It was a vicious divorce that ended up lasting years.
Weve been married for ten years now and are still very happy.
His ex is doing great also.
Avocadoavenger
12.
When he kissed me goodbye, I just knew.
A few years ago, I met this amazing guy.
Lets call him Guy A.
Fell very much in love with him, he was so kind and sweet.
I was pretty heartbroken over it.
Fast forward a few years.
Im a year and a half into this horrible relationship.
Well call him Shithead.
Hadnt seen him since the time we hooked up, which was a few years ago.
My heart skipped a beat.
When he kissed me goodbye, I just knew.
Ive been with Guy A ever since, and havent looked back once.
tsbae
13.
Was living with my girlfriend at uni.
Got home, said to my gf that I wasnt sure things were working and I needed some time.
Meanwhile the other girl and I got closer and a few things happened.
vipros42
14.
He begged me not to move to be with my boyfriend and grabbed me and kissed me.
So I kissed him back.
Again and again and again.
My long-term boyfriend and I had to be long distance for about a year.
I missed him immensely.
I guess I didnt communicate how important I thought that was to our relationship.
Cue my male friend from my college program.
Our program was pretty rigorous.
We basically had to teach 2 high school classes M-T and had master levels classes on Fridays.
Oh, and our work was unpaid.
We commiserated and drank cheap beer together and watched movies played board game etc.
Pretty much on the weekends we were attached at the hip.
So I kissed him back.
Again and again and again.
I called my then boyfriend 3 hours later and said I had to end it because I cheated.
My then boyfriend said We can work through this and I said I dont want to.
That was 2 years ago.
Im marrying my friend from my program in a couple months.
I wish I would have done it sooner so I didnt hurt him as badly.
Charles_Chuckles
15.
I really needed to get laid…it had been about 6 months.
My ex-husband and I werent even sleeping in the same room when I met my affair.
Ex just wasnt interested in sexand it was causing so many fights because I was so unsatisfied.
I hopped in the car and drove down and we hit it off really well.
He didnt know I was married at the time.
I really needed to get laid…it had been about 6 months.
The affair never ended.
Or I guess it officially ended when my divorce was finalized.
He and I are married now and have been together for six years.
littlelighteninggirl
16.
We hooked up that night and it just felt right.
I was friends with this guy, well call him Trevor, for a long time.
4 or 5 years.
I always thought he was cute but the age difference at that time was too much.
When I was 23 and he was getting ready to turn 21, it didnt seem so bad.
Wed been hanging out a lot and were both single.
One night I told him I was confused about our friendship and had feelings for him.
I thought he wouldnt be interested, but he was.
We kissed right before he left and decided to see where things would take us.
The next night he came over and was acting weird.
He eventually said he was too scared to lose me, to risk our friendship.
I told him to gtfo, I was pissed, hurt, and embarrassed.
I couldnt understand why he didnt just tell me no the first time.
We stopped hanging out for a few weeks, then he begged for my forgiveness.
I had truly missed him too and thought I would be okay with being just friends with him.
A few weeks later, i started hanging out with a new group of guys.
One of them, Matt, eventually made a move on me and we started sleeping together.
He said he didnt want a relationship.
I told him that was fine.
Matt and Trevor had already met through me and our whole friend group hung out a lot.
I told Trevor about Matt.
He seemed upset and another friend mentioned that Trevor had asked if Matt and i were serious.
I didnt say it back but I agreed to be his girlfriend.
Matt was not the worlds best bf.
Two days after being official I saw Tinder notices on his phone.
We talked about it and he said that was from when we werent official.
We went out with friends to a club.
A girl showed up who i had used to work with, who was very flirty.
She kind of attached to our group.
I warned Matt about her and asked him to give her a wide berth.
Matt later denied this and told me to call Harry and ask.
Harry again confirmed that Matt had danced with another girl.
One night he was getting snaps from someone who he identified as an ex.
I told him I was uncomfortable with that and he made the choice to delete her.
Except he kept getting snaps from her.
I attempted to break up with him then, but he begged me for forgiveness so i forgave him.
He also would constantly stare at other girls to the point where Id become very insecure.
Trevor , Harry and i went out together about 5 months into my relationship with Matt.
Trevor confessed that he was in love with me, he couldnt stand how Matt was treating me.
I broke up with Matt the next day.
It was hard, I felt terrible about cheating on him.
He fought the breakup for weeks after.
He did everything he could to get me back, including saying he was planning on proposing.
Trevor and i are still together, almost two years later and were doing great.
Initially we had a lot of problems stemming from how we got together.
I was scared hed change his mind.
He was scared I would do to him what I did to Matt.
If I could go back and never date Matt, I would.
You are not trapped, even if it feels like it.
jadiebellrock
17.
Its a relationship like none other Ive had.
Were so open and honest with each other.
I had no life, it was just work, baby, beat down, rinse/repeat.
I was put down so badly, I didnt even consider myself a human being anymore.
We all lived in such an abusive environment.
So to me, this was normal.
Then one day, I snapped.
I went online to find friends.
Me being naive, I went on an adult friend finder website.
I had found someone genuine, and caring, and healthy.
And they helped make me feel like maybe I could be a person.
And romantic feelings quickly developed.
I gathered up enough courage to leave.
It wasnt easy, very messy.
Theres still a whole bunch of kinks that need to be worked out.
Everyone always tells me I should file for child support, but I just cant.
The thought of it makes me want to throw up from nervousness.
Hed rather spend it on drugs.
But I just cant.
He scares me too much.
But otherwise, I still have a healthy happy relationship with the person I had met on the internet!
Its a relationship like none other Ive had.
Were so open and honest with each other.
Theres still speed bumps, but I would never expect perfection.
Hes an absolute dream working with my kid!
Ekou_Lorraine
18.
I quickly fell for him and his wonderful personality.
I had been serious with a guy for about a year and a half.
Things in the relationship were terrible he was emotionally and physically abusive.
Now Im not an idiot, I tried to break it off for almost a year.
I knew the relationship was bad for me.
But, every time I tried to he would manipulate me back with various threats.
I quickly fell for him and his wonderful personality.
Eventually I managed to break up with the exnot through lack of trying!
Im still with my SO, it has been 5 years now.
I feel bad still, it wasnt at all my SOs fault.
He was very innocent and was only trying to save me.
Story_throwaway1928
19.
I am happy to say that I divorced my ex and am still with the guy I met.
We have been together 6 years now.
TL:DR Married the guy I was cheating with.
3 years and a kid later, I was miserable and he couldnt understand why.
I saw the handwriting on the wall, he didnt.
We were not on the same path, had very different goals.
We separated and tried marriage counseling which didnt help.
I started seeing someone else during this separation period.
We had already discussed divorce but yes, we were still married.
The new guy I started seeing was 5 years older than me and we just clicked.
I am happy to say that I divorced my ex and am still with the guy I met.
We have been together 6 years now.
We married 3 years ago this August.
We are life partners, soul mates.
We see eye to eye on all the big important stuff in life.
My life has changed drastically for the better in the last 6 years.
I have accomplished dreams that never would have happened with my ex.
We just werent right for each other.
The ex and I had a very nasty divorce and a rough few years.
It took a long time to tolerate each others existence.
I worked diligently to keep our daughter from feeling the tension or being harmed by the negativity.
She is an amazing child, so Id say I succeeded.
New husband is an amazing step dad.
Was it still worth it?
Oh my god, yes.
PixieNurse
20.
We both divorced and are very happy together.
My relationship was strained with the wife.
Hadnt had sex in years.
Got talking to one of my best friends about her strained marriage as well.
Things got intimate after a few years.
We both divorced and are very happy together.
keepcrazy
21.
Im a lot happier than I was before.
So I guess it all turned out pretty well.
I flirted with a couple of our friends, jokingly at first but more seriously as time went on.
So I guess it all turned out pretty well.
ayaleaf
22.
Knowing that I had a place to go gave me the courage to file for divorce.
Started with me (married for 7 years) met him at work.
That was it for me.
Rather than leaving, I started sleeping with my coworker.
This led to me finding every excuse I could to get out of the house and go see him.
We could be roommates since his current roommate was getting married.
Knowing that I had a place to go gave me the courage to file for divorce.
After I filed, my coworker broke down and told me he loved me.
I loved him too.
We have been together for 5 years now and are married.
I wish I could say I regret cheating, but I dont.
Amazingwonder87
23.
Cheated on her with someone who I didnt expect to fall in love with.
Cheated on her with someone who I didnt expect to fall in love with.
I made it blatantly obvious in hopes that my girlfriend would break up with me.
Conclusion: She begged me to stay.. Ive never been happier and I want this to last forever.
Explained everything to her, she actually said yes and we started seeing each other…
I didnt over hype it at all and I am so happy with life after chasing her.
Anonapple891
24.
We fell in love over a few months.
It became clear that we wanted to be together.
My wife was abusive, cold, controlling, and overall terrible.
I am an easy to control guy, and she took advantage of that.
I told her that she makes my life shit, she didnt care.
My wife hated being a mom.
I found emotional support in a single mother coworker.
We fell in love over a few months.
It became clear that we wanted to be together.
I showed her my daughter, I started to build a relationship with her daughter.
We started having sex.
I manipulated my wife to stop breastfeeding our daughter.
Then I told her I was cheating on her.
She forgave me in about two minutes and told me she wanted to stay together.
She calls me dad.
My daughter is with us 5 days out of 7.
My ex started working, and seems to be doing much better than before.
Im the happiest Ive ever been.
I had to leave that abusing asshole.
I felt alone, and found someone.
Now my daughter and I live in a family where we can be happy.
Soon shell have a little brother too.
