I mean good for your happiness.
Good for your emotional health.
Good for your wellbeing.
God & Man
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Updated 7 years ago,June 3, 2018
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Its okay if you havent met the one yet.
Thatnational averagefor meeting the right person is 29 for men and 31 for men.
God & Man
So dont put so much pressure on yourself.
The job maybe even the company youre with might be temporary.
People willchange their jobabout 10 or 15 times.
Its okay if you dont have it all figured out.
Dont put so much pressure on yourself that you should have everything written out and planned.
The exciting parts of life are the ones that sneak up on you bringing with it happiness.
Everyone else doesnt have it as together as they pretend.
Everyones lives are filtered.
From the things they post to the things, they tell you.
Everything in an attempt to achieve both happiness and success.
Thats going to look different to everyone and its going to take people different times to get there.
I know you thought that person who broke your heart was going to be the one.
I know you think these things you feel right now will stay with you for a while.
Your current financial state will improve.
Youre not always going to be cringing when you log into your bank account.
Youre going to do just fine and youll look back at those moments laughing.
This is your time to be selfish.
Dont look atbeing singleas such a bad thing.
Because one day you might not be able to just get up and leave.
You are going to lose people you thought were forever friends.
You might lose someone you knew would be in your wedding.
And its going to hurt like hell.
But its better to learn who they are now and what their intentions are then realize it later.
Its okay if you arent where your parents were at 25.
Take care of yourself.
You are going to change your mind so many times.
Youre going to learn more about life and the world and the things that work and what doesnt.
You wont have the same opinions or outlook on things and thats a good thing.
Changing the course of your life right now wont jeopardize your future.
If you realize you arent at the place you want to be right now, quit.
You have the ability to get up and change any part of your life.
Try living somewhere you dont know anyone.
As scary as it might be moved somewhere new.
Move to a city where you dont know anyone and no one knows you.
Go somewhere and create the story you want to be your life.
They are getting older too.
Learn to appreciate them.
Value the time you have with them.
Put down your cell phone and give them your undivided attention.
One day youre going to miss them so much.
At 25 you should be talking less about people and more about goals.
Realize those people are toxic.
Choose wisely who you associate with.
Home will always be there.
Its okay to be homesick.
Dont be afraid to take that trip.
Everyone has that one place they want to go do it.
Figure out the rest later.
Be aware of credit card debt.
The best throw in of debt to have is none.
But if you have to have debt dont be reckless with the privilege that is a credit card.
At 25 you should know whats going in the world and why you have certain political beliefs.
Regardless of how sad the news might be or how crazy things are thats going on, be aware.
If you find that thing that makes you excited to get up in the morning stick with it.
Whatever or whoever makes you happy to be alive realize the value in finding that.
People spend their entire lives trying to find that thing.
Stopping worrying so much about your future.
The future will be there.
Understand the importance of networking and building relationships.
Choose your battles wisely.
Understand the difference between healthy relationships and those relationships that arent pushing you forward.
Always leave on good terms.
And if someone feels the need to try and take you down understand the importance of not responding.
Remember how far youve come up until now.
When you start to think, do I want this?
What is my next move?
Remember the time in your life when you wished for what you have now.
Learn to look back only when youre measuring how far youve come and how youve improved.
Learn something new every day.
Read every single day.
Try and be better than you were yesterday.
