There are various definitions of effort, but people don’t always stop trying.
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Updated 4 years ago,August 10, 2021
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They dont love you if they dont text you back.
Anna Shvets
People are not obligated to explain to you the reasons why they dont communicate.
We all lead busy lives and appreciate that for the fact that theyre doing something productive.
Theyll change for the better if you love them harder.
Unfortunately, even if you stay for the longest period of time, people dont change that quickly.
You have to stop loving people into their potential.
On-off relationships are completely normal.
Stop romanticizing toxic relationships.
The right person wont keep breaking up with you with every conflict.
Everyone goes through toxic relationships in their life.
Not everyone goes through this kind of abuse and trauma in their lives.
If it doesnt hurt, it isnt love.
Again, another misconception that causes toxic relationships.
Real love may hurt, but it isnt supposed to be self-destructive.
Its you and them against the world.
Unlike the media, relationships dont work that way.
Im sorry to say, but love doesnt fix the existing issues in your life.
- you might fix, save, or change them or vise versa.
At the end of the day, were our own responsibility.
Love is an excuse to act out.
Love is patient and kind, and no matter what, its never an excuse to treat people badly.
Even if youre angry, youre grieving- whatever it is- its not an excuse to act out.
You are more worthy of a romantic relationship.
Relationships are just labels, and it doesnt define your worth.
At the end of the day, what defines your worth is yourself.
There is just the one.
News flash- the one is the person that you end up marrying.
You just know when its right.
You dont feel it when its right.
Love is supposed to be easy.
Love is supposed to be difficult.
Unlike the above, love isnt supposed to be difficult, either.
Relationships take work, but it isnt supposed to drain you more than fulfill you.
If its meant to be, then it will happen.
Life isnt a fairytale and ultimately, relationships last when you work for it- not because destiny says so.
Right person, wrong timing.
Theres no such thing as wrong timing.
Its just something people say to soften a blow when relationships dont work out.
When you want it to work, you make it the right timing.
Real love is filled with passion and desire, and nothing less.
However, love is calm, safe, and secure.
Its not always supposed to fill you up with overwhelming emotions.
Love is spending every second together.
This is not only unrealistic but unhealthy.
you’ve got the option to love someone, and spend time apart from them.
After all, distance makes the heart grow fonder.
To some extent this may be true, but not for compatibility.
Long-term relationships get boring.
No, relationships develop a sense of stability and comfort, as the time goes by.
Relationships dont lose their spark, they just settle down in familiarity.
Love is based on a feeling, not a choice.
Love is committing to them, even when you dont feel like it.
Thats why marriages and long-term relationships work in the first place.
Healthy relationships consist of conflict.
Disagreements are normal in a relationship, but its never supposed to be constant- otherwise known as toxic behavior.
Instead, constructive criticism should be present.
Romantic love is the only love that matters.
Romance is portrayed to an extreme in the media, but it isnt the only love that matters.
Its beautiful and unlike any other, but there are different kinds of love exists.
People lose interest as a relationship progresses.
There are various definitions of effort, but people dont always stop trying.
Sometimes, you just stop seeing effort as it is.
you might have a change of love language as the time goes by.
If you love them, you have to tolerate their behavior.
Stand up for yourself when respect is no longer being served, and walk away if needed.
Two broken people will mend each other.
This is a recipe for disaster because two broken people will break each other open further.
If anything, the aftermath is far worse than how you were prior to the relationship.
