Continue to push yourself out of your comfort zone.
Dont let yourself get stagnant.
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Updated 4 years ago,September 4, 2021
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Kawamura
Spending time with yourself and pushing yourself out of your comfort zone will immensely help your growth.
It will help you figure out your likes and dislikes.
Start admitting when youre wrong.Its not easy, but its important.
Admit when youre wrong.
We all make mistakes, theres no shame in that.
Owning up to it instead of trying to cover it up is a much better look.
Ask hard questions.Even questions you dont necessarily want to know the answer too.
Asking hard questions is tough but the answers can teach you a lot and be vital to your growth.
Its time to let that stuff go and focus on more important things in life.
Start a business, travel, try different jobs fields, move across the country.
You are young enough now that you will bounce back from whatever failure or setback you might encounter.
Start reading more.Reading is so vital to your growth.
It expands your mind and helps you think about things from a new perspective, even fiction books.
Challenge yourself to read one book a month, even one book every two months but read.
Not to mention reading is a workout for your brain and is great exercise for your memory.
Stop talking about what you did and start listening to someone else.
Listen, like put your phone down and really listen, to someone when theyre talking to you.
Gain more experiences.Worry less about collecting things in your 20s and worry more about gaining experiences.
Spend more money on experiences and less money on material items.
Create a schedule or routine.Nothing throws your life and productivity out of whack like not being in a routine.
Prioritizing your time and your to-do list becomes immensely harder when you dont.
Drinking is fun, but wasting an entire day being hungover is not.
Like my mom says to me, you dont have to black out every time you go out.
you might still have fun without drinking so much you want to die the next day.
Its important to write them down so you could hold yourself accountable.
Make your morning routine a habit so it becomes easier as you go.
Growing up youre taught that consequences are always worse when you lie at first and its true.
There are also some people who will disagree just for the sake of disagreeing.
It is impossible to change everyones opinions.
Learn how to empathize.Empathy is vital to all relationships.
Its important to understand that not everyone is in a similar situation than you.
Some people have it easier and some have it much harder.
I startedlife coachingand it made a tremendous impact in my life.
It allowed me to figure out who I am and what I want.
You have a voice and you should use it.
My only request is that youre not an asshole about it.
Learn how to say no.When you dont want to do something see to it you make that clear.
No is a complete sentence and you should feel comfortable using it.
Travel!Travel is the best way to emerge yourself in different cultures and ways of life.
If you could do anything in your 20s, I urge you to travel to a foreign country.
Sometimes you will get burned, dont let it make you hard and change your heart though.
Keep being the best version of yourself you’re able to be.
you could love a job and still lose it.
It hurts and it sucks, but thats life and its not fair.
Recognizing that now will help you be prepared in the future for when things dont go as you hope.
It wont make the pain any less but its important to understand.
Continue to push yourself out of your comfort zone.Dont let yourself get stagnant.
There is only so much happiness you’re able to feel when things are easy and simple.
When things are easy there is no way to gain anything from it.
You need new experiences, challenges, and lessons to come your way to improve and grow.
