One of the biggest regrets most people have about their 20s is that they didn’t enjoy them more.
Have the courage to say when something isnt working.
Have the courage to commit when something is.
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Have something to talk about that isnt other people, and your judgments of them.
Stop worrying about inane things like whether or not you are fat.
Nobody will be at your funeral blessing your life because you maintained one pant size.
How you look is not an accomplishment.
9.Ask questionsabout other people more than you make statements about yourself.
Cut yourself some slack.
One of the biggest regrets most people have about their 20s is that they didnt enjoy them more.
And Im not talking about buy more expensive dinners, take another trip to Thailand punch in of enjoyment.
Learn how to be nice.
This is the most insanely powerful life hack, and yet the most overlooked.
Learn how to genuinely be nice to people.
This will get you farther than anything else.
Live so death has nothing to steal.
Leave everything on the table.
Dont hold back your thoughts, your love, your creativity for another day.
That path leads you to becoming a fraction of the person you were meant to be.
Stop saying you want to be in a forever relationship, and be in one.
Your soulmate relationship is something you build, not something you stumble upon.
If you dont figure this out, you will be perpetually disappointed by the person you end up with.
Live within your means.
Accomplishments dontchange your life, habits do.
Write a mission statement and use it as your guideline.
Define your most essential values and verify your thoughts, actions and decisions align with them.
This is how you live an honest life.
Learn to bow out of friendships, relationships, jobs and parties with grace.
Be in the discomfort thats leading you to your bad habits.
Whatever it is thats holding you back in your life is actually a symptom of some unmet need.
Figure out what it is, and feed it in a healthy way.
Your external issues will start to dissolve as you do.
Recognize the ways in which youve projected blame onto others.
Learn to seek purpose more than you do pleasure.
Pleasure does not change your life, it makes discomfort bearable.
Purpose makes discomfort worth it.
Dont let comfort be your first virtue.
Home is where you make it, so make it somewhere.
Break free from the illusion that what you see on Instagram is real life.
It is not real life.
It is a highly curated, aspirational, photoshopped, filtered vignette.
Learn to be happy here, now, today.
You cannot save up your happiness to be released when you think you deserve it.
You either have it now, or you have it never.
