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Updated 8 years ago,August 10, 2017

1.

Everyone, including other men, thinks I am dispensable.

traggoth

2.

Man Treated Unfairly

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Were blamed for all things wrong with the world.

Being blamed for all things wrong with the world.

cartoonassasin

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Man Treated Unfairly

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We get blamed for all breakups.

Mad_Jukes

4.

We get blamed for all divorces, too.

Get married and wife wants a divorce?

You must be an abusive asshole.

Dried_Squid_

5.

Women arent taught to be kind and respectful to us.

Being taught to be kind and respectful to women, only to find out they werent taught the same.

The5Pieces

6.

Women and children first.

The whole women and children in the lifeboats first.

I want to live, too.

AMAROKwlf

7.

We die younger on the average.

coxmi

8.

No matter how hard our lives are, were supposed to suck it up.

That be a man, suck it up bullshit.

Were supposed to have feelings too.

Reizo123

9.

Were not allowed to cry.

We also have feelings, butsociety taught us not to show them.

Boy who cries is a wimp, supposedly.

Sometime this year will be 20 years since I last cried.

I dont even know how, even if I sometimes feel the need.

InvisibleFireman

10.

Its OK to body-shame us.

Unthinkable if you are a male, you are a pig.

You are joke for not helping the way you were born.

Chongotheinfinate

11.

We are seen as nothing more than a paycheck.

I am my occupation and paycheck.

StaplerLivesMatter

12.

We hardly ever get full custody of our children.

Stay-at-home dads are seen as deadbeats.

Mordu

14.

We always have to make the first move.

Its really hard to be passive/submissive in the dating world.

Why do I always have to be the one that messages first?

Or initiates sexual contact?

Rpgwaiter

15.

A false accusation can ruin us.

That we can have our life forever ruined for a false accusation.

Tman2002

16.

Were expected to do all the manual labor.

The expectation to cover all manual labor tasks inside of a relationship.

Also…stop stealing our hoodies.

RikerOmega3

17.

We cant talk to women without them thinking were flirting.

If I just randomly talk to you and youre female, Im automatically hitting on you.

Woman, dont flatter yourself.

IVIagicbanana

18.

People think its impossible for us to be sexually harassed.

umeneed2knownow

19.

Were vulnerable to false accusations by women.

Making the first move when youre unsure of hints.

Not because Im scared of rejection, but Im scared of false claims of rape.

I would never intentionally hurt a girl, or attempt to even make one uncomfortable.

But I could say something wrong to one and my life could be over.

throwyoworkaway

20.

We have to be extremely cautious around children.

People just assume youre a child molester.

Having to be extremely cautious around children.

People just assume youre a child molester.

Her mom was WAY over on the other side of the park.

No way that wouldnt get me in big trouble.

So I just sat there and she eventually had to let go and drop to the ground.

Society says men are child molesters by default.

huuaaang

21.

Most suicide victims are men.

Most suicide victims are men.

Most workplace accidents and fatalities are men.

Most victims of violent crime are men.

Male-on-male bullying is usually met with boys will be boys.

CrazyCoKids

22.

Were expected to be competitive with other men.

I hate that a lot of other men have this weird idea that everything has to be a competition.

You really dont need to make everything a pissing contest.

DarlerStox

23.

We have lost part of our identity.

I think men have lost part of their identity.

My fear is that men will start using identity issues in the future if they arent already.

But hey, thats just like my opinion man.

the2baddavid

24.

Women are allowed to hit us, but we cant hit back.

Im allowed to be domestically abused in the eyes of many women and police officers.

Guys are told they can handle it.

We arent all 610 with a black belt.

Girls can kick your ass as well.

Can you imagine the opposite going on TV and being laughed at?

The controversy that would cause?!

FPSGamer48

25.

Were expected to work until we die or give up.