Sometimes you might do everything right and it still doesn’t work out.
Good friends can be bad partners.
Incompatibility is a real thing.
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No one has to be a douche for a relationship to fail.
Sometimes you’ve got the option to do everything right and it still doesnt work out.
Dont set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm.
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If someone is making you miserable, dont just take it to make them happier.
Its not healthy when your happiness revolves solely around another person.
Never give them your clothes because you will never see them again.
He convinced me that I was an evil person who caused every problem he ever had in his life.
That timing is often a more important factor than love itself.
I suffer from major depression, and I was using my ex as a crutch for years.
When the relationship ended I was terrified I wouldnt be able to make it on my own.
I found out that I could, I still stumble over minor issues, but I am learning.
Donteverbeg them to come back.
If your gut tells you this person is lying and it doesnt feel right then usually it isnt.
Love makes you blind.
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I think a lot of people do this in their first relationship.
Treat them as your equal; dont act like theyre some holy figure that can do no wrong.
Just because nothing was wrong, doesnt mean everything was alright.
Two incomplete ppl dont make a whole.
Get to know and love yourself before you get into a relationship
Breakups are good.
Every relationship either ends with you being happy together or breaking up.
Dont ever place value on someone who doesnt value you in return.
You have a right to end a relationship.
Dont rush into things because it seems perfect and dont compare new people to an ex.
I was in a 4 year relationship and never a ladies man.
We ended it but great friends now.
Dont be scared to embarrass yourself.
There are many thing worse than embarrassment specifically regret
That love isnt always enough.
If you steal her from her previous BF, her next BF will steal her from you.
Unfaithful people be unfaithful.
Sometimes only time can help you heal.
Also, sexual compatibility is uh… Just because the path forks doesnt mean the bridge has to be burnt.
Dont get too invested, unless youre completely sure they feel as strongly about you.
Find someone whos not just your partner but your best friend too.
It sucks at first but things tend to go upwards from there.
