Its always sold in romcoms and in relationships.

5.People that do good deeds so they can brag about it or use it to their own advantage.

Look at me, Im such a good person!

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Just so I could tell everyone about all the good things I do!

Like all the time.

Because Im a good person, remember?

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6.Toxic positivity, ie: people who take a stab at find the good in everything.

Sometimes the appropriate answer to a situation is to just acknowledge that things suck.

7.People that say theyre always 100% honest and arent afraid to speak their mind.

9.Supporting a person to a fault.

In other words, being an enabler.

They make this huge public display and the kid is too shy to say no in front of everyone.

Its embarrassing and distressing for that poor kid.

I have cut them out and feel so much better about it.

12.When people get involved in and regulate other peoples relationships.

They attempt to act like theyre helping but they always make it worse.

13.Being the supportive friend/significant other who will never say no even if its a really bad idea.

14.Constant self-diminishing and downplaying of your abilities as humility.

Not sharing opinions and emotions for fear of weakness harms your relationships with others.

18.Putting people down because you feel like your chastity makes you better than them.

Also toxic is bringing up these gestures during arguments and holding it against them.

20.Sweeping issues under the rug for the sake of peace.

In other words, being the bigger person.

21.People say they care about you so then they divulge everyone elses information and private gossip to protect you.

22.Putting people in their place.

I have only ever seen insufferable drama queens and bullies use this term when referring to themselves.

23.Telling kids that they are so different than everyone else while implying that they are somehow better.

Its fine to work hard at something you love, but not at the expense of everything else.

25.Not being honest with people solely to make them feel good.

26.Being offended on behalf of another person without knowing or wanting to know their opinion.

No, sometimes people dont deserve it, and you shouldnt be ashamed to let them go.

cause theyre clearly having it harder than you are.