‘Physical Touch’: Create an embrace thats uniquely yours.
(If youre not sure what yours is, take thequiz!)
Sometimes two people fall together, but dont see eye-to-eye.
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One person may value touch or intimacy, and the other might like words or actions.
Depending on what you are reflects what youneedin a relationship, and vice versa.
Here are three little ways you could strengthen your relationships:
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Initiate a conversation.When was the last time you reallytalked?
The Acts of Servicelove languageis shown through giving, generosity, and intention.
For someone who matches this love language, actions really do speak louder than words.
Benjaminrobyn Jespersen
Here are three things you could do to strengthen these relationships:
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Maybe its filling their car with gas.
A little effort goes a long way.
Try this at mealtimeinstead of your person serving himself/herself, tell him/her to sit down.
Make them feel special and show them, in a tangible way, your love.
Example: Maybe your person always does the dishes because you do the vacuuming.
Get yourself out of that role.
Show him/her you care by doing something different, and without asking.
This love language is not just about presents or objects with monetary value.
Here are three ways it’s possible for you to gift your person:
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Surprise them with something small.Run to the store and grab your person a thankful for you card.
Leave them a little note on their bathroom mirror that they can wake up to.
Have a small bouquet of flowers delivered to their work.
These gifts are not very pricey, but theyre thoughtful.
And with this love language, its the thought that counts.
If you have the means, buy or put money towards the one thing they really want.
This not only shows your love, but shows that youve been paying attention to something theyre interested in.
Gift them with your time and affection.Gifts are not always things.
you’ve got the option to give your person the gift of time, too.
Take off a night of work and spend it together.
Put your phone down and really pay attention to him/her.
Set aside an hour to call them when youre apart.
This love language is all about time, attention, and intention.
Here are three things you’re free to do to strengthen your Quality Time relationships:
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Maybe one of you is on a business trip, or traveling.
Maybe you live down the street, but havent really had a quality night together.
Schedule a date in advance.
Book something for the future.
This love language is about purposeful touchshowing and allowing the people in your life to feel your presence.
Here are three ways to strengthen your Touch relationships:
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Create an embrace thats uniquely yours.Maybe you nuzzle noses before you fall asleep.
Maybe you have a secret handshake, or little hand-squeeze when you first see each other.
Whatever it is, make ityoursso that its special and intimate.
Put your arm next to their arm.
Touch their cheek, or even kiss them when theyre done speaking.
Go out of your way to hug your person.
When theyve had a long day.
When you wake up.
When you go to sleep.
For no reason at all.
Its just a simple, but personal way to show them how much they are valued.
