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Updated 1 year ago,January 16, 2024
These bitter truths fromAsk Redditshouldnt get you down.
They should remind you youre not alone if youve been feeling down lately.
1.Loving someoneor being loved by someoneis not the same thing as them being right for you.
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3.You cant learn without failure.
You wont change without pain.
4.No one else will advance your life for you.
Advance it yourself, or be happy where you are.
5.Sometimes people who are suppose to help you hurt you instead.
6.Self-doubt can actively destroy you at every turn.
7.Family is not necessarily blood.
8.The only person you’re free to ever 100% rely on is yourself.
9.Its one thing to be acquainted with people you find to be friendly.
Its another to havetrue friendsthat stick with you through thick and thin over the years of your lives together.
10.Some people truly cannot be helped.
11.You cant make people like you.
Be someone youd respect, and those who share your values will respect you for who you are.
13.You cant make everyone happy.
14.No matter how hard you try, you wont always get what you want.
15.Its not always an option to make lemonade with the lemons life throws at you.
Some lemons are just rotten like that.
16.Love is disposable and replaceable.
17.You cant erase your mistakes.
18.The only things guaranteed in life are illness, pain, and death.
Happiness and love need to be earned through dedication and compassion.
20.People will always be in search of more.
21.you’ve got the option to do everything right and things sometimes still turn out wrong.
22.Not everyone has your best interests at heart.
23.Happiness doesnt exist without sadness.
24.Love does not conquer all.
It really, really, doesnt.
25.Very few people actually care whether the things they believe are true or not.
Even when it would be in their best interest to let it go.
26.No matter how nice you are.
There will ALWAYS be people who say they hate you and mean it.
27.That a big part of life is dependent on luck.
Its a hard pill to swallow that a lot of things are out of our control.
28.you might do everything right, put in all the effort, and still fail.
29.You are the villain in someone elses narrative.
30.Losing a parent sucks as a kid and as an adult.
