When they show no pity or remorse for something they did that hurt you.
1.When you are nervous next to them and relaxed when not.
2.Jealousy, wanting to know your constant whereabouts.
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3.Acting like theyre the only one who cares about you (to make you stay/rely on them).
4.Repeatedly bringing up the favors theyve done (to get you to comply).
6.Controlling behavior always assuming control, and undermining your ability to do anything yourself.
8.Making it difficult for you to meet/connect/spend time with family or friends.
11.They will find ways to separate you from friends and loved ones.
12.If you love me youll do blank for me.
13.Your feelings dont matter, and no matter what happens, everything is your fault.
Youre trying to talk about a problem and by the end of the conversation, youre the one apologizing.
My ex-boyfriend never once uttered the words, Im sorry straightforwardly.
If anything, it was always, Im sorry you feel that way.
14.Picks fights over silly things (to test boundaries).
16.Controlling the income/stealing money (so you rely on them).
If they are making you feel guilty for leaving, thats not a good relationship.
18.Look what you made me do.
19.Never letting you educate them on things you actually know about because they think it makes them look stupid.
Especially lying to family members or best friends.
21.Spreading lies to those in your inner and outer circle (to isolate you).
22.When they show no pity or remorse for something they did that hurt you.
23.When every ex is crazy.
They will belittle your argument or dismiss it.
26.When everything you do, they always make it sound like nothing important.
Downgrading it, belittling, anything of the sort.
27.My ex very early on showed me who he was.
28.Its hard for them to accept no as an answer.
30.Its never their fault.
