Closure doesnt make feelings disappear.
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Updated 1 year ago,January 16, 2024
These truths fromAsk Redditwill hit hard.
Its like telling yourself that you arent good enough, so lets settle for this person.
kevin turcios
2.Closure doesnt make feelings disappear.
3.Love doesnt mean that you will always agree with each other and will never have an argument.
You will behave in irrational and downright STUPID ways.
Do things you cant explain.
And afterwards wonder what the hell you were thinking.
6.Love is a choice you make every day.
Dont follow the butterflies, those will come and go.
Find someone who you think will make a dependable and honest partner.
7.Just because you love someone, theres absolutely no guarantee theyll ever love you back.
8.Youll always have doubts, its inevitable.
9.If you see crazy coming, CROSS THE STREET.
I dont care how hot they are or how good the sex is.
I am saving you heartache, listen to me and learn from my pain.
Requited yet unobtainable love is a potent flavor of heartbreak.
11.If its not an enthusiastic hell yes, then its a no.
And I dont mean that just in a sexual way.
Obviously if someone isnt excited about sexy times, then you absolutely need to stop.
If someone says they want to hang out and blows you off for several hours then its a no.
12.Never never NEVER chase after someone.
If they dont actively like and show interest in you, you cannot make them.
13.Attraction comes and goes, but routine is the enemy #1.
14.you’re able to still love someone, but no longer be in love with that someone.
A backwards slide from lover to friend.
15.Love is all you need, is a crock of shit.
Theres more to relationships than a feeling.
There is no perfect combination of words or actions that can sway them if theyre not interested.
Often trying too hard only makes you seem desperate, and undesirable.
If you dont learn to take no for an answer, youre only going to destroy your friendship.
19.Love and lust are two very different things.
Lust will always fizzle out eventually.
You better have something to fill the gap or your relationship is doomed.
20.Best case scenario, you both die at exactly the same time.
Normal scenario: one of you dies first, leaving the other alone and heartbroken.
Worst case scenario: you split, leaving one or both of you heartbroken.
Its a classic lose lose lose situation.
21.There is always one partner that loves more.
So they will start to annoy you.
Before long, the thing you loved them for, you will dislike them for.
The strongest feeling now could mean nothing in a few years.
Having said Ill love you forever in the past still haunts me to this day.
I meant it, but was I wrong.
27.Being in love with a loveless, selfish person can be a toxic, painful trap.
The longer you stay, the more comfortable it gets for you.
28.Its ok to be a bit shallow when selecting a partner.
Attraction is a veeeeery important part of a relationship.
Dont settle down with someone who is a great person, but youre not attracted to.
29.A lack of important communication in the beginning of a relationship might just be the thing that ends it.
30.Love isnt a fairytale.
I mean, two people can love each other dearly, but that doesnt automatically mean everything works out.
Love aint enough on its own.
