Cue trying to prove ourselves, seeking validation and attempting to avoid rejection.
Dont sell yourself short.
Recognize signs of disinterest so that you dont allow someone to pass time with you.
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Theyre not contacting you or are sporadically contacting you.
They treat you like an option.
4.They dont want to put both of their feet in and commit.
The relationship doesnt progress it goes in fits and starts, stalls, or goes into reverse.
6.Theyre keeping you a secret.
7.They tend to be around/call you up when they want something.
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Dont make the mistake of thinking that they got in touch because they want to get back together.
They dont break up with their wife/husband/girlfriend/boyfriend.But they still expect to be with you.
14.They dont get that divorce finalized.In fact, they may even pretend theyve started proceedings!
In fact, they keep making excuses.
They keep changing their mind about their interest in you.Flip-flapper alert!
18.They talk incessantly about themselves while not really taking an interest in you.
OR… they deflect conversations away from details about themselves and make a run at focus on you.
20.They sleep with other people while sleeping with you.
They only have a sexual interest in you.
22.It takes them weeks or even months to call you up after a date or taking your number.
Youre hanging out like friends.
You may even be friends with benefits.
24.They disappear for periods of time.
This is not the same as love or as a result of love.
30.Theyre so busy, they have no time for the relationship.
Nobody is that busy and when someone is genuinely interested they find the time.
Of course, if something better comes along, theyll be out of there.
You cannot be available for an available relationship if youre making yourself available to someone who is unavailable.
