Life is beautiful, even with all of the messy bits.
Focus on what you might control.
4.You cannot control other peopleplease dont have a go at go down that road.
Marina Lima
6.Everyone can teach you something, even if its what not to do.
Ignore the voices who tell you otherwise.
8.Vulnerability is a strength and a superpower.
9.Ask questions before you make assumptions.
10.Ask questions, always.
11.Remember, there is no mold, no checkbox, no singular word for all that is you.
12.Remember, you are not your jobwhat you do is merely a piece of the mosaic that is you.
13.Trying to save money doesnt make you cheap; it makes you wise.
It makes you someone who plans.
14.Resist the urge to put a timeline on your journey.
Widen your gaze to see all the possibilities.
15.Take inventory of your life periodically.
Who is sitting at your table?
What are you doing with your free time?
What media, art, and nourishment are you consuming?
The answers to these questions can often dictate your days and the feelings in your heart.
16.Create a space for people to say I dont know with ease.
17.Be the person who says I dont know with ease.
Emotions are not an either/or situation.
That doesnt mean the universe is conspiring against youit just means that things change sometimes.
21.Changing plans is okay.
Changing your dreams is okay.
Changing your opinion is okaywouldnt it be sad if you spent your entire life never changing?
22.Its okay to let go of the people who do not love you back.
23.Let go of the need to kindly everyoneyou cannot.
24.You are worthy of love, too.
25.Just because your best friend is getting married doesnt mean that you should be, too.
26.Just because your best friend has a child doesnt mean that you should embark on parenthood.
27.You have to move in a way that is best for you.
28.Love is a precious gifttreat it as such.
But they take work, too.
They always haveits just that when you find your forever human, you want to put in the work.
Its work that is worth it.
