1.Say what you mean!
Dont dance around an issue.
Dont make it a game.
Mark Rivera
Be direct and just come out with it (in a non-assholish way).
Thats for both sexes.
2.Remember that love is a choice, not a feeling.
Someone who loves you is going to treat you in such a way that you feel loved.
He might have the hots for you, sure.
3.Longevity in a relationship is about compromises both ways.
4.People change for their own reasons.
Dont get into a relationship with someone hoping he will change.
Unless he wants to, it wont happen.
5.Sometimes us men really are thinking about nothing, nothing whatsoever.
If we saynothingit usually means nothing.
6.We dont have to talk to consider it quality time.
7.When you are with your SO put the f#@%ing phone down.
8.Most character traits that a guy has arent going away.
People change throughout the course of a relationship, but fundamentally core behaviors and beliefs wont budge.
9.Even men like to be pampered and made to feel sexy.
How you do that depends on your man, but we absolutely love it when we receive it.
10.Sometimes men need space to relax and play videogames with their buddies.
It doesnt mean that they dont love you but giving them some space is so important.
Were complimenting you for a reason and its not because wehaveto.
14.Little compliments are really awesome.
Good communication makes things so much easier.
15.If you hit or berate your boyfriend/spouse, thats abusive.
16.We cant read minds.
Never think we should know what you want or are thinking.
17.If you want to be with someone else, dump your partner.
Men dont handle subtlety well.
19.Be the one who engages intimately once in a while.
What Id give to have a girlfriend reach out and touch me without me doing anything prior.
Means a lot to a guy!
Tell your friends you love them, and care about them.
It might mean nothing to you, but it means the world to us.
21.If you see a dude you like, go for it.
I HATE the whole only the man asks because thats the masculine thing to do.
Nothing is hotter than a strong-ass woman who sees what she wants and takes it.
Just call me Ron Swanson because powerful women are awesome to me.
22.The best advice I can give is you sometimes shouldnt be friends with an ex or someone you rejected.
Youre absolutely NOT doing them a favor youre NOT letting them down easy.
Youre dangling a dream in front of someone who will never get it.
Cut contact and leave.
Youre turning a broken heart into a festering one.
23.We enjoy a comfortable silence.
Not every moment needs to be filled with meaningless talk.
24.Dont treat your partner differently in front of other people than you do in private.
25.Why do people love dogs?
They dont do much.
They dont do our taxes.
They poop and dont even clean up after themselves.
The only thing dogs do is provide affection.
The secret to winning affection is to give it.
All men want, all people want is to be wanted.
26.like dont volunteer us to do something for someone else before asking.
27.kindly stop ghosting me.
It actually feels worse than being told the truth about how you feel.
30.Probably my top advice for anyone in a relationship: DO NOT PLAY RELATIONSHIP GAMES!
And, dont loyalty test them or whatever crap.
If trust is lacking, tests wont fix them.
Communication and trust will.
If that doesnt work, tests certainly wont.
Just say what you want.
If the other person genuinely doesnt know and is trying, thats okay.
Dont make it unnecessarily hard on them.
