“You’re overreacting.”
This is often a manipulation technique, to make your feelings feel unreasonable and to make you doubt yourself.
1.Look what you made me do.
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Shifting blame for their own actions onto others is a serious red-flag.
2.Im sorry that you feel that way.
They shift blame to you and never apologize for whattheydid.
3.If you dont do X, then Im breaking up with you.
4.No one will ever love you as much as I do.
6.Look man, Im just brutally honest.
Most of the time that means, Im going to be a dickhole.
7.Im a good person.
8.Youre so mature for your age.
Especially if speaking in reference to minors.
9.Work hard play hard.
10.All of my exes are crazy.
11.If you cant handle me at my worst then you dont deserve me at my best.
13.I cant live without you.
14.I dont get along with other girls.
Be wary of anyone who defines themselves by the people theydontget along with.
Dont you trust me?
16.Im a nice guy, why dodegrading slur for womenalways pick bad guys?
17.I dont get angry easily, but when I do get angry, I do X and Y.
People bragging about a violent streak is so weird to me.
Ive never responded to anything with violence.
I assuming that this is because Im a well-adjusted person.
I will NEVER trust a person who says that to me.
Thats not up to them.
19.I want to be spoiled.
Ive always seen that asgive me everything I want without any reciprocation or even thanks.
20.Were more than coworkers/employees.
21.Im not racist but…
22.I dont like drama.
If you hear that, or a variation of that, walk away.
Trust me, they are all about that shit.
23.I do trust you.
Its other boys that I dont trust.
24.Im a very sarcastic person.
100% of the people who think that sarcasm is a personality trait are in fact just rude.
26.Youre not like other girls.
28.Im a nice guy, I never get the girl.
29.Ruuuuun when the girl says: Im high maintenance.
When one of my friends says this.
I immediately know something is wrong.
