“When me and my partner settle in for the night she always scratches my back.
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Updated 1 year ago,January 16, 2024
Heres some advice from some real men fromAsk Reddit.
1.Just a simple, gentle, and loving touch.
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I dont mean sexual, although who knows, depends on the mood.
A lot of men (myself included) are starved for something like this.
It really improves my mood for the rest of the day.
2.Let me be the little spoon.
3.Tell the guy that he is good/matters/is loved/is not a failure.
Not randomly, as that doesnt mean much.
Tell him when he is struggling with himself, or when he is losing faith in himself.
4.Breakfast in mother fucking bed.
Best goddamn birthday present I ever received.
Woke up to cuddles and breakfast.
Best goddamn day ever.
6.Lay her head on my shoulder/chest as were sitting together.
Even better if she dozes off means she feels comfortable and safe with me.
Makes me feel completely content and happy.
7.Ask me how my day was.
Seriously, I just kind of want to know Im on someones radar.
10.Give us a compliment.
11.If she bakes me sweets, I feel like the luckiest person in the world.
12.Hey heres a picture of something I saw when I was out and about that reminded me of you.
13.When me and my partner settle in for the night, she always scratches my back.
Its such a small gesture but its like 20% of the reason I fell in love with her.
14.Make effort to talk to me and spend time with me.
15.At least pretend to be interested in the random stuff Im excited/interested in.
16.Shes a keeper if she asks you if you want to lay your head on her lap.
Even more so if she has thicc thighs.
Its a small thing, almost insignificant, but it makes me feel like I matter.
18.Cuddle on the couch with me while watching movies?
Yup, thatd do it all right.
21.Laugh at stupid/not funny jokes.
It just makes us feel that we can be funny even if were not.
22.Run your fingernails across our back until we fall asleep.
Well marry you in a heartbeat.
23.Give enthusiastic sex or blowjobs.
24.Nothing like a home-cooked meal!
25.Simply running her fingers through my hair can make me fall for her all over again.
28.Spontaneous, unannounced hugs.
29.Quite honestly, just comfort us.
Most guys are absolutely touch starved and arent used to getting affection from people.
Like, jump scare level, sneak attacks.
