When they say they like their partner to be independent.
1.Too much clinginess too early.
Maybe theyre just eager, but maybe they have serious emotional issues going on.
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2.Trash talking their exes.
Not a dealbreaker, but definitely makes you pause and wonder about the whole two sides to every story.
3.If they lie about very insignificant things that it was not necessary to lie about in the first place.
4.Still talking to their exes.
Depending on context flag color changes.
If its done considerately, that its only a yellow flag.
Done inconsiderately then its a red one.
6.If theyll cancel plans with you because another friend wants to hang out.
Once could be a special occasion or a close friend they havent seen in a while.
Im fine with having them share their interests with me!
But rarely do they ask what my favorite tv shows/videos are or show interest in watching mine.
8If every one of their failed relationships was the other persons fault.
The one youre dating was nevereven slightlyresponsible.
Its not a deal breaker but its something watch out for definitely.
Or tell me theres no way I could like whatever it is.
11.That theyre unemployed and not trying too hard to get back into the field.
12.If you know their family and they suck.
Just proceed with caution until you know where they stand.
13.When they bring up ALL the business trips/ international conferences theyve been in on the first date.
Its usually a sign theyre insecure or that they dont have a personality outside their job.
14.Lots of stories about how they were wronged for no reason at all.
15.Zero hobbies or interests.
The relationship will become their hobby, and it’s possible for you to kiss yours goodbye.
17.If they act different towards you when around their/your friends compared to how they are in private.
18.Not liking the fact I still live with my parents.
Im 20, I dont have enough money to move out.
19.Someone who likes to party and drink lots.
21.The ambiguous off feeling that you cant put your finger on.
Even if they seem otherwise like a really lovely person.
22.Men who talk about our wedding on the first date.
As well as kids, kid names, meeting parents etc.
23.When they keep bringing up astrology.
I get it can be a fun hobby but I swear its like a religious cult for some people.
24.A very close relationship with his mother.
It could be a good thing or a really really bad thing.
25.When they say they like their partner to be independent.
Im not opposed to it, but it usually says a lot about them.
This flag only works if its between two people with little to no prior history going on a date.
29.If shes constantly the victim in all her stories, she will be the victim in your story too.
Most people have one.
Three or more is a red flag, you either pick em crazy or make em crazy.
Two could still be luck, or on the path to three.
31.When someone doesnt know how to make a basic meal.
Its not a dealbreaker, but it does make me pause.
32.If theyre repeatedly late or cancel last-minute.
33.When they get in my car and change the radio station.
