Desiring human connection is totally normal.

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Updated 6 years ago,February 13, 2019

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Its okay to be sad.

4 Gentle Reminders If You’re Feeling Single And Sad This Valentine’s Day

Joshua Rawson-Harris

Its the guilt that typically lasts longer, not the sadness.

Let yourself get there at your own pace.

You want something more for yourselfthats agoodthing.

You dont need to totally own your single status 24/7 to be worthy of respect.

Its okay to not want to be single, just dont let it be what defines you.

Desiring human connection is totally normal.

It is noted to be a psychological need to feel love and acceptance from those around us.

Its part of the whole tribe survival instinct that we all have.

Its a fear of wanting love but subconsciously not feeling like its possible.

So pretty mucheveryoneout there is also in search of love on some level.

You dont need to feel alone about that anymore.

it’s possible for you to stop calling yourself desperate and hopeless now.

You are in the same boat as the rest of the 7 billion people on this planet.

Everything you have experienced up to now has worth to it.

You are learning what you want out of life and out of your partner for life.

Im sure youre tired of hearing that, because most of the time, I am too.

Its a great thing though.

You still have a really great chance at experiencing one of the most beautiful human experiencesfalling in love.

This is truly the greatest part about being single.

Us single folks still get to wonder about that.

And watch how everything will begin to unfold the way it was always meant to for you.