Give yourself a chance to love again, to feel again, and to live again.
Im going to share with you four reasons why you still cant seem to get over your first love.
Lets say you were in a relationship where you feel perpetually anxious or stressed.
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You may have been miserable with him, but now youre more miserable without him.
Beautiful, you have to stand back up and put yourself out there again.
Your heart is stronger than you realize.
Ive been there and Ive seen heartbreak through to the other side.
It takes time and patience.
Here are the real reasons its so hard to get over your first love:
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You miss the way he made you feel.
You miss the connection, the passion, the intimacy, the feeling of being desired.
You miss the way he made you feel more than the actual person he was.
After going through a breakup there is almost always a period of withdrawal.
Whether it was your decision to end the relationship or not doesnt really matter.
So the withdrawal is very real!
Surround yourself with people who genuinely care about and love you.
Its time to create that sense of worthiness from within.
You gave up your personal life for him.
The relationship feels like your everything because at the time it literally is.
And if you breakup, you feel empty, like a piece of you is missing.
You dont have those other pieces of your life to fall back on anymore.
The key is to start recreating and rebuilding your life and making it joyful and balanced.
You took the breakup too personally.
Was it something I did?
Should I not have slept with him so soon?
I wish I had been more fun.
These are all thoughts that can go through our heads after a breakup.
Rejection hurts, a lot.
Sometimes two people just arent the right fit.
Sometimes both people know how obvious it is, and sometimes only one person does.
Sometimes a person was meant for a season of your life, and that was it.
You dont think youll ever find anyone as good.
Will you meet someone else exactly like him?
No, because no two people are exactly alike and even still, that isnt always a bad thing.
The two of you broke up which means that maybe what you need isnt what you think you want.
Which means you’re able to feel it again.
