Real love isn’t about checking boxes.
But this one hit differently because I saw a lot of myself in the movies protagonist.
Jane is simply too polite to say no when the brides pile on ridiculous amounts of work.
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Jane also realizes that the writer of her favorite commitments column thinks weddings are sort of pointless.
I dont think Ive even attended 27 weddings, but heres a list of things I learned from Jane.
Theres even a montage of the character taking on bridesmaid duties at two weddings simultaneously.
Jane taught me that being indispensable to everyone else can leave you feeling invisible in your own life.
And thats something Ive been guilty of, too.
They might even start to assume youre happy to do it.
Although its always good to help out, it should never be at the cost of your own happiness.
But heres the thing… Bottling up your feelings doesnt make them disappear.
Its the perfect example of what happens when you stay quiet for too long.
Speaking up just makes you human.
And if the people around you truly care, they will listen.
For so long, Jane defined herself by what she could do for others.
Sadly, George didnt value Jane for the person she really was.
Talk about a major red flag.
However, Kevin turned out to be her biggest supporter.
Its about being seen for who you truly are.
Its the one who sees you, flaws and all, and chooses you anyway.
