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Updated 7 months ago,October 6, 2024
Healing is a journey that lasts a lifetime.
Even though you want to wake up in the morning completely healed, that isnt the way pain works.
You are going to have good days and bad days.
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You are going to feel amazing one week and then come undone the next.
This is the natural progress of things.
Dont get mad at yourself because you thought you were over your past by now.
Dont feel like a failure because its taking you so long to heal.
Some wounds are going to last a lifetime.
When they reopen, it’s crucial that you be gentle with yourself.
Dont treat yourself like the enemy.
Give yourself the kindness you should have gotten a long time ago.
What others put you through isnt your fault, especially when you were a child.
Its important to take responsibility when you make a mistake.
But its also important to recognize when you werent the one who messed up.
As a living being, you inherently have value.
You deserve to be treated with respect.
The bad things that happened to you were not okay.
They never should have happened.
Never let anyone treat you like that again.
Some people are never going to understand.
There are people out there who will get you.
These people will be your rocks as you walk through life.
The stories you tell arent enough to make them comprehend the weight of what happened to you.
You know better than anyone because you lived it.
So dont let their ignorant opinions about how you should and should not feel impact you.
Dont listen to a word they say.
What you went through changed you, but it did not taint you.
Your existence means something.
You have as much value as anyone else walking through this world.
Dont doubt your importance for even a second because you are a beautiful human being.
Even though you might have baggage and unresolved trauma, you are not broken.
You are not unlovable.
You are going to create a wonderful life for yourself, despite what youve been through.
you might achieve beautiful things.
you could rediscover the happiness that others have stolen from you.
