They are your best friend.
The best thing that’s ever happened in your life and everything about them makes you feel safe.
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Updated 4 years ago,September 6, 2021
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Twenty 20
Deleting your dating apps.
There is something that just makes you really happy knowing you arent available anymore.
Corny traditions like apple picking.
Twenty 20
Having a +1 to weddings.
Its that moment you dont have to walk away during the slow dance.
Having a +1 to any and all events.
Any events you have you know theyll be right there with you.
Bringing someone home for Thanksgiving.
Sharing in traditions or holidays even if theyll not your own.
Its thinking a little more and wanting to get them something really good.
Staying in on a Friday.
Realizing you dont have to go out to meet people.
And you realize how content you are just staying in with the person you care about.
Going out with the same person youll go home with.
Or just going out with them to your favorite bar.
And you remember when you used to leave alone or leave with someone you might have just met.
But theres something about going home with them that makes you happy.
Calling them your boyfriend or girlfriend.
Its not just about the label.
Its adding how real this thing suddenly is.
Running into an ex and it not hurting.
Like costumes or pumpkin picking.
As corny as it is dressing alike is kind of cool.
That first vacation traveling you realize you’re able to tolerate each other.
Just waking up next to someone and being happy.
They are the first thing you see every day and theres something really special about it.14.
Even if you like opposite teams you get to share in those little moments.
Building a life together.
Suddenly you dont remember what your life was like alone.
Thats scary but also exciting.
It doesnt need to be over the top.
Something as simple as pizza and staying in is exciting with the right person.
Sharing in your interests.
Everyone has those things they keep close to them.
Having someone to talk to every day.
You talk everysingleday and you dont run out of things to say to each other.
Being able to really rely on someone when you need them.
You need them to be somewhere and they wont let you down because they care about you.
Someone seeing you at your worst and staying.
Everyone fears this moment.
But then you wake up and nothing has changed and all it does is add confidence to each other.
Whatever that means for you just getting to that point and overcoming certain things when other relationships couldnt.
Its the little adventures that make things exciting.
Its waiting for them to watch a show together because you cant-do it alone now.
Heres someone you get to surprise any time youd like to.
Falling in love with their pet.
Its not only them you fall in love with but their animals too.26.
Just falling in love in general.
Then you watch yourself falling faster and faster but this time its okay because they are falling with you.
Those songs that suddenly make you think of them.
Those songs about love and relationships you used to pass on the radio suddenly make complete sense.
Telling someone you arent single.
Having relationships with their family.
You dont just build a relationship with them you build one with their family too.
Having someone to share a life with.
Its suddenly not just your life but this life you have together.
Always having someone to go out with.
Suddenly you have this best friend just there all the time.
Just spending time with them is enough.
You realize it doesnt matter what you do what matters is them.
Leaving things at their house.
Realizing your first fight doesnt change things.
Every couple fights but that first big fight doesnt end it for you guys.
Hearing the words I love you for the first time.
Talking to your friends about someone.
Overcoming the things youre afraid of.
This person pushes you to overcome your fears and become abetter versionof yourself.
Getting to know even the bad parts of someone.
Every deep and drunk conversation.
Suddenly youre telling someone things you havent even said out loud to yourself.
Looking at someone and justbeing sureof them.
They are your best friend.
The best thing thats ever happened in your life and everything about them makes you feel safe.
