You need marriage and children to get to be a whole person.

Au contraire,single and childfreewomen actually make up one of the happiest groups according to research.

According to Harvard researcherDr.

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Lexa Nicole

Bella DePaulo, studies reveal that single people can experience numerous benefits of singlehood.

Single people are too picky.

They should just settle so they can be chosen.

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Theyve been chosen many times by different partners.

They are not too picky or choosy they are selective and have boundaries.

Theyre forever alone.

There is a variety of people who have this status.

This includes people who have jumped from relationship to relationship and are finally taking time and space to heal.

It includes divorced people who are happier now that theyve left their marriage.

It includes people who are focused on their careers and building their finances.

It includes people who are deeply connected with their friends and family members.

It includes people who are extroverted social butterflies and those who are introverts.

It includes people whove had many sexual partners and it includes people who have always been celibate.

It includes people raising children and people who are childfree.

It includes people who are actively dating but not looking for anything serious.

Singlehood is About Desirability

Youve seen many attractive celebrities and high-ranking professionals who are single.

You see intelligent, successful, funny, empathic powerhouses who are single.

You have also seen toxic, narcissistic, unsavory people in relationships.

Yet the myth of desirability still seems to enter the conversation any time the discussion turns to relationship status.

There are many single people who enjoy being single and thrive in singlehood.

Some are ultimately searching for their true love yet happily taking the time for personal growth while being single.

Some find intense euphoria in solitude and enjoy going out on their own and traveling solo.

People are complex and multifaceted and there is more to a life than someones relationship status.