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Updated 2 years ago,September 7, 2023
Age-gap relationships.
If youre in your early twenties, mind the age gap when it comes to dating and relationships.
Could it be that women in his age group have the life experience to see right through him?
Logan Weaver
You may have a desire to feel sophisticated and taken care of.
You will never experience this decade of your life again.
Make it count and do what fulfills you not your dating partner.
Love bombing and future faking.
Not every toxic lover is going to show up as Darth Vader.
Some will come dressed as the knight in shining armor and Prince Charming.
As a woman, youve been programmed to center your life around men and romance.
Youve been conditioned withpick-me habitsof pursuing and chasing men who arent worthy of you.
Its an innocent yetbrutal time because of what you do not know.
They say I love you and Youre my soulmate early on.
All of this seemsdeeplyenchanting, magical, and romantic when youre in your early twenties.
You want to risk it all for love and get engaged to the first handsome man who appears decent.
You should cherish these experiences, but dont bet your future on them.
Some of these men will be immature manipulators and others will have darker personality traits.
Control disguised as love and generosity.
What doyoulike to do?
What makes your soul feel alive?
What kinds of goals do you want to reach?
Pathological envy and emotional abuse of any kind.
Perhaps youll run intoenvious co-workersat the workplaces you enter or encounter jealousfemale narcissistsas friends.
Most devastating of all, you might even date or enter a relationship with apathologically envious narcissist.
He benefits from being associated with your beauty, success, and popularity.
Maybe he starts crazymaking arguments right before important interviews or exams.
He might discourage you from applying to your dream college, job, or internship.
Familiarize yourself withthe red flagsof manipulators ahead of time so you are aware of theirdiversion tactics.
He could try toprovoke jealousyin you and betray you just because he knows you could do better than him.
He could even verbally or emotionally abuse you orstonewallyou when youre trying to have constructive conversations with him.
Being pressured to live together early on.
In your early twenties, living with a man may seem like an ideal situation.
Most narcissists wont show theirtrue colorsuntil after youve already moved in, so that is always a risk.
