If you have PickMe tendencies, its time to reprogram yourself.

Here are the five dating red flags you should consider re-evaluating.

Coffee dates or hike dates.

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Grey’s Anatomy

They may still focus their best most high-quality dates on certain people they do want to impress.

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Whats the point of wasting this time?

The girl best friend.

Weaponized incompetence or going 50/50.

Piggybacking off the first red flag, does he claim hes not good at planning dates and lack initiative?

Does he expect princess treatment?

Is he a frontrunner of the sassy man apocalypse, where he devalues women and thinks hes the prize?

Pick-me women are rabid defenders of men following or liking other womens lewd pictures and accounts.

They claim they are not insecure and that any woman that has an issue with it must be crazy.

I find this other woman attractive!

And this one, and this one!

Look at that bikini!

while publicly humiliating their partners.

Thats a respectful man right there.

Inconsistent treatment or attempts to make you jealous.

One minute hes showering you with attention, flattery, praise.

The next hes withholding and withdrawing and pretending to have other women chasing them.

Dont fall for this trap.

You dont deserve hot and cold behavior or toxic uncertainty.

You deserve a partner whos sure about you.

You deserve a man who knows your worth and treats you as irreplaceable.