You don’t have to tear all your walls down and wear your heart on your sleeve.
you’re free to still be cautious about who you let into your heart.
you might still get to know someone before deciding whether they deserve access to your thoughts.
Kate Hliznitsova
You are allowed to be picky about who you love.
Just…
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Updated 5 years ago,September 1, 2020
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You still like this other person.
You still want to be with this other person.
Just because you arent saying the words out loud doesnt make them any less true.
No one else will know youre in pain, butyouwill know.
They dont want to experience heartache either.
If you act like you want nothing to do with them, then theyre never going to be yours.
It pays to be honest.
Acting vulnerable and admitting your emotions doesnt make you weak.
It makes you brave.Its terrifying to open up your heart, especially when youve been hurt in the past.
Either youre going to end up learning they feel the same way about you.
Or youre going to get turned down and will be able to move on.
Either way, at least you will know the truth.
It all depends on the situation.
Yes, youre better off alone than with someone toxic.
You shouldnt stubbornly stay single once you find the right person.
You shouldnt push someone wonderful away because you are scared of what will happen if you pull them close.
you could still be cautious about who you let into your heart.
you’re free to still get to know someone before deciding whether they deserve access to your thoughts.
You are allowed to be picky about who you love.
Just dont swear off love completely.
