“My experience wasnt wasted because it made me stronger.”
Theyre full of despair and not sure if they can go on.
This breaks my heart, because I know just how hard it is out there.
And I also know that you could get a 2nd, 3rd, or 100th chance.
Love is out there, waiting for you.
The struggles out there that women (and men alike) are feeling in dating are all too real.
Im not diminishing these struggles.
He told me he was in West Palm Beach visiting his girlfriend.
He chuckled and said,We found each other on the internet…can you believe it?
Benjamin Robyn Jespersen
I wasnt sure whether to laugh or cry.
I felt so inspired and warmed by this cheery, hopeful man.
Its amazing to me how human beings find the motivation to keep going.
I help women who are ready to give up hope on ever finding lovehere.
One of the best ways to initiate this mindset shift is to practice daily reminders through powerful love mantras.
Right now, its like this.
Let go of your ideal version of how things should be right now.
This letting go doesnt mean you dont care about something or someone anymore.
Its just realizing that the only thing you really have control over is yourself in this moment.
The best way to move away from what I dont want is to consistently move towards something I do.
Finding that ultimate relationship can take time.
Instead, go slow to get their fast.
It truly is the best way.
3.Life changes every single minute, and so can I.
Never assume that you are stuck with exactly the way things are right now.
We dont tend to do this when things are going well.
In fact, we do the opposite.
We take the good times in the moment for all theyre worth and assume they cant last forever.
The challenging part about this is that it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.
My experience wasnt wasted because it made me stronger.
Effort is never wasted, even when it leads to disappointing results.
It can make you stronger, wiser, resilient, and even happier in the long run.
So when things get tough and youre losing hope, be patient and keep going.
Just because you are struggling does not mean you are failing.
It seems the results of my beliefs and actions are giving me clear feedback that I am in misalignment.
This is not a fail and I am not a fail.
This is just an oops message.
Life is happeningforme, rather thantome.
I can tell you from personal experience that I had a really difficult time getting over my first love.
Years later I got married and had my son.
Take the long view.
Embrace an attitude that life is happening for you.
