You must find excuses to initiate conversation to get to spark plan and see each other.
But it hurts so we tend to ignore our instinct, stalling these negative feelings.
Obvious or not, the unconscious part of our mind registers the information before our conscious side does.
Troy Freyee
Red flags may not always be visibly noticeable.
So heres your tough love reminder if youve found yourself in a relationship, youre unsure of.
Here are 5 subtle signs that he may be using you:
1.
He gets a phone call in your presence and doesnt mention you
There are always exceptions.
At the very least, he can familiarize someone in his life with your name.
If hes not talking about you to his friends or family, he doesnt see you in his picture.
Hes using you for the time being.
It could be something as simple as your favorite food or favorite place to visit.
Maybe its some insight about your childhood or something that happened at work.
Something straightforward, but significant.
More importantly, they dont care about what youre saying.
Maybe you stop for coffee, or breakfast on the way there.
The fact of the matter is, if you let a guy use you, he will.
The excitement builds, and you cant wait for whatever it is you two end up doing.
Suddenly, you realize that the two of you dont have a specific time or place.
Hell care enough to finalize things in advance and not at the last minute.
If hes not matching your excitement, hes not phased by whether you two see each other or not.
Dont let him use you.
