She is the Dream Girl, but she isnt the girl you end up with.
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Updated 8 years ago,June 13, 2017
1.
Too Many Options
The classic I dont want to put all my eggs in one basket syndrome.
Larisa Birta
However by keeping your options too open, you are never giving anyone a real chance.
It is possible to love more than one person at the same time.
Eventually they will grow tired of this game and find someone who wants to be serious with them.
Case Of Not Enough
Attractive people always feel like they are settling.
We live in a world where physical beauty is praised more than anything else.
We rank our self-worth on our instagram likes.
Larisa Birta
Some jobs merit candidates by their number of followers.
This social media beauty ego boost, makes beautiful people think they deserve better.
Their beauty becomes like a prize, that must be earned and nothing ever seems good enough.
They will always believe there is something more out there.
Attractive people have this perception that the grass is always greener.
When they are given all this attention, they dont really know what to do with it.
Everyone Is Replaceable
Finding someone new in this day and age is just too easy.
Jealousy
If they do have a steady partner, it wont be long before he becomes jealous.
Some men will enjoy feeling like they have a trophy.
However most of the time, they will fear losing her.
They will feel inadequate and even when they have her, they wont feel like they ever do.
They will always feel like they are competing with everyone else, even when she is his.
The truth about beautiful women is, most of the time they are the most insecure.
She fears they only look at her, but never see her.
Will you still love me when Im no longer young and beautiful?
She is the fantasy girl, the muse, but she isnt your wife.
She isnt girlfriend material.
She is something you want, but not something you need.
You dont give her a chance to leave that realm of fantasy and become real.
You do not give her the chance to be both, and she can be.
But, easy is never worth it.
The simple girl may be the safe choice, yet that doesnt mean she is the right choice.
There is a sense of security with the simple girl.
This is rooted back to #4 Jealousy.
Sometimes a more attractive girl can be poorly typecast.
Her looks can give her a reputation, she never asked for.
Her beauty can make her seem unattainable.
Most men give up too easily on her, because they fear rejection.
They put her in the trophy section, but not the good girl section.
She is the Dream Girl, but she isnt the girl you end up with.
The Dream Girl scares you and the Safe Girl doesnt.
At the end of the day, you do not want to gamble.
You want a for sure thing.
This Dream Girl is a risk, and you are tired of rolling the dice with her.
