Being deliberately vague in their responses to your direct questions to avoid accountability.
and they will answer as if they did not even hear the original question.
They may say something like, Purses are easy to lose, arent they?
KoolShooters
Things are always moved around here, taking themselves out of the equation completely.
or, It is not that late.
Deliberately misrepresenting your perspective to the point of absurdity.
The conversation then moves in circles and never culminates in a resolution.
putting words in your mouth you never said.
Telling an outright lie to paint you as the perpetrator.
This punch in of crazymaking is common in smear campaigns against the victim.
they come home one day and accuse you of flirting with their brother).
These types of baseless accusations are also common on social media.
It has the effect of deflating the victim in times of celebration or joy.
I need my partner to be accepting of my sexual desires.
Are you okay with me seeing other people?
If not, we probably shouldnt be in a relationship.
Complying with your requests, while also taking something away from you to ensure you dont win.
This eventually trains you to not expect or ask anything of them at all.
If you are in a relationship with a narcissist, its important to seek professional support.
You deserve more than a toxic relationship that harms you.
