Move on without answers.
Even though the questions might keep you up at night, eventually youll learn to accept the unknown.
Youll make peace with the situation.
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As curious as you are, its entirely possible to move on without closure.
Sometimes, there isnt a concrete reason why the relationship ended.
They might not have a good excuse for treating you the way they did.
They might not be able to clear up your confusion.
Or they might lie so that make themselves look good, or so that spare your feelings.
No matter how hard you try, you might not have all your questions answered.
Unfortunately, shit happens.
Maybe it doesnt matter why your relationship ended.
Maybe the only thing that matters is that it was thewrongrelationship.
And now, you have the chance to move onto something better.
Your heart is going to heal either way.
Whether you learn the details or not, youre going to get over them.
Right now, that might feel impossible, but your heartache cant last forever.
One day, youre going to wake up without them and youll actually be happy about it.
Youll be relieved that theyre no longer in your world because they werent a good fit for you.
They werent what you needed, even though you might have thought they were at the time.
Remember, whether you get closure or not, the days are going to continue to pass.
Your heart is going to continue to heal.
Getting closure wont change your world as much as you think.
Even if you get closure, at the end of the day, youre still going to be heartbroken.
Youre still going to be single.
Youre still going to have to move on from them.
Closure isnt some magical cure that will make it easier for you to live without them.
Youre going to be okay.
In case no one has told you this today, youre going to be okay.
You are strong enough to overcome this heartbreak.
You are resilient enough to make it through the week, the month, the year.
This heartbreak hasnt broken you as much as you think.
