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Updated 5 years ago,November 9, 2019
1.
You should be mad at them, not at yourself.They were the one who used you.
They were the one who hurt you.
Hanna Postova
They were the one who did something wrong.
Youre not a slut.
Youre not an idiot.
Youre not a bad person.
You couldnt have seen this coming.
Sleeping with them will not make them love you.Unfortunately, sex doesnt mean the same thing to everyone.
The experience you shared might have meant the world to you.
But to them, it might have meant nothing.
It might have been a one-time thing.
It might have been casual.
Theres a chance theyll take what they want from you without giving you what you want(i.e.
a relationship)in return.
If youre interested in casual sex, have casual (safe) sex.
Dont let anyone tell you that you should be holding out for therightperson.
Do what you want.
Not what society wants.
A relationship is not going to make you feel better about yourself.
There are no quick fixes.
There are no shortcuts.
Do not get into a relationship with them again.
Do not fall for their bullshit again.
Dont settle for someone who doesnt deserve you.
