Your person shouldn’t pressure you into situations that make you uncomfortable.
They shouldn’t guilt trip you.
They shouldn’t manipulate you.
Dainis Graveris
They shouldn’t compare you to exes.
They shouldn’t comment on things you should change about your own body.
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Updated 5 years ago,June 17, 2020
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Ifyoudont even know the answer yourself, then you should spend some time figuring it out.
You deserve to know what your body enjoys.
You deserve to experience pleasure.
Dont keep pretending youre perfectly fine with sex as long as your partner is happy.
Youre supposed to be having a good time, too.
And honestly, your partner is going to enjoy themselves more if they see you enjoying yourself, too.
you’re free to try new positions.
New times of day.
If theres something new you want to try, you should tell them.
If theres something you havent been enjoying, you should tell them.
You dont have to be rude about it and hurt their feelings.
But you should be as honest as possible.
The more transparent you are, the better sex will be for the both of you.
You arent having sex with your partner nearly enough lately.Every relationship is different.
Some couples have sex a few times a week.
Some have sex a few times a month.
And some have sex a few times a day.
It doesnt matter how frequently youre sleeping together but it does matter whether youre happy.
Maybe theyve been tired from work.
Maybe theyve been feeling insecure.
Maybe theyve been feeling under the weather.
Or maybe you simply need to rearrange your schedules so youre both ready for sex at the same time.
There could be a simple solution but you wont know unless you talk to each other.
They shouldnt guilt trip you.
They shouldnt manipulate you.
They shouldnt compare you to exes.
They shouldnt comment on things you should change about your own body.
They shouldnt make you feel insecure inside or outside of the bedroom.
If they do, thats a pretty good reason to break up with them.
They dont deserve your body if they cant respect it.
