Lasting love isnt only a matter of finding the right person; its about being theright person.
Unfortunately, most people get so caught up in the former they completely ignore the latter.
However, this isnt always true when it comes to dating.
Rustem Baltiyev
You keep ending up in the situations over and over again.
Personally speaking, I had a habit of only chasing guys whodidnt want me, or who couldnt commit.
Ending up in the same situations over and over again doesnt happen because of some force conspiring against you.
It usually signals that you better make a change, and this is an active process.
You gain your sense of worth from men.
Feeling attractive and desirable can be addicting and is almost like a drug.
But that isnt where realself-worthcomes from.
You cant outsource your self-esteem and it certainly doesnt come from making a man ache for you.
You are fixated on an ex.
Either way, you cant heal a bullet hole with a Band-Aid.
As I mentioned in the previous point, feeling worthy comes from within.
You feel unsatisfied in your life.
You dont have clarity in life.
You may find that your relationships always fall apart and feel helpless as to why this is.
Taking a break from dating can help clear your mind and lead to some seriously revolutionary epiphanies.
You may uncover hurts that you didnt even realize you were still holding onto.
