After all, you dont want to chase them away.
You dont want to miss out on your chance to be with them forever.
But some people arent deserving of your time and attention.
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And you deserve so much better.
They might ghost you for months, then come right back like nothing is wrong.
Thats because they assume you arent going to turn them away.
It doesnt matter how unloved they make you feel.
They think youll always be there for them, so they dont mind treating you terribly.
Their time isnt any more valuable than your time.
If they really want to see you, then they can make a plan in advance.
They dont need to keep you waiting until the last second.
They wont consider how their drop-in might impact you or make your life harder.
All theyll care about is that they need you.
When theyre in the mood to remember your existence, theyll be impatient.
They wont want to wait for a time thats convenient for you.
Theyll want you to accommodate them anyway.
They assume youll do anything for them.
You feel emotionally drained by them.This person shouldnt exhaust you.
Dealing with them shouldnt feel like its sapping all your energy.
You should come away from conversations with them energized, not drained.
And you should stop giving this person so much access to you.
Stop letting them treat you worse than you deserve.
